In this senerio what does this mean?

[JohnOO8]

I went out with her, she dumped me because i made a mistake, she doesn't call me, im to hurt to call her. She deletes her screen name makes a new one and then two months later initiates contact out of no where.. What does this mean?

[Beec]

No one can read her mind, and you really don't give much of a description. The more important question is what do you want? Answer that and then work to make it happen.

[TrueHeart]

Well, probably that she's actually ready to talk to you again... Keep things light if you do talk to her. Perhaps a bit more info on what you want will help you help us!

 

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[DragonGirl724]

i agree with the previous reply. she probably needed time to mourn & is strong enuff to hold a convo w/ u now. shes probably also curious as to what lies ahead. did u cheat on her? be careful w/ a dumpee's heart its very fragile in the beginning & hopefully she truly IS strong enuff to talk 2 u again. i saw my ex after he invited me to dinner after a month broken up & i thought i was 'ok' to see him.. WRONG!! BIG TIME! only NOWWW can i handle seeing him after 3 & 1/2 months broken up, but ugh watever. jus be careful & dont lead her on if u dont feel for her anymore.

 

goodluck,

-DG724

[JohnOO8]

The truth is its been nearly a year now and i am going to ask her back out when i see her (in 19 days) WHAT I WANT?: i want her to love me because i love her with all my heart.. we talk all the time now but the real question is how to start a relation ship over since i was hurt when she dumped me. I did NOT cheat i said something to her friend that made her angry

[Beec]

How to start over is how to start with some modifications. You cannot ignore past history, but you cannot dwell on it either.

 

Asking her out may not be a good move.

 

If you want her, you need to try to make her feel great while at the same time acting like you need or want nothing from her.