getbiii Posted March 18, 2010 Share Posted March 18, 2010 so my ex girlfriend left me and she was on the rebound, she left her rebound for me because she realized that she misses me and that she loves me and he wasn't for her, we have been seeing each other and everything was giong great. weeks before this she started taking pills because she was depressed (her parents gave them to her, they were not prescribed) i saw her today and we were happy and she left saying we would see each other in the afternoon she called me from the hospital saying she couldn't see me, i talked to her mom she said everything was okay... to not worry, then a sent her a text saying that was there anything i could do, or if i could go visit her because i care a lot for her, she replied saying to just wait and that she might be out soon. i texted her mom again an hour later asking for an update she replied saing, i think its best if you don't see her anymore or call her. if you love her let her go, =( what is up with that? i love her and she loves me, i had stopped looking for her and calling her i was doing NC and she was the one who looked for me what should i do?? i love her so much Link to comment
civilservant Posted March 18, 2010 Share Posted March 18, 2010 I think you need to speak directly to her. I don't know how, but you do. Link to comment
getbiii Posted March 18, 2010 Author Share Posted March 18, 2010 i sent her an email saying i just wanted to know how she is, that im hear for her, i dont know what her parents think about me but that her mother had asked to stay away so i have to respect her, but that im hear when ever she needs me. i think her mom is blaming me for her depression, it might be partly my fault, but she dumped me and left me for someone else Link to comment
getbiii Posted March 18, 2010 Author Share Posted March 18, 2010 =( i feel real bad! don't know what to do Link to comment
civilservant Posted March 18, 2010 Share Posted March 18, 2010 You've sent the mail, and all you can do now is sit back and wait. Resist teh urge to check your mail every 2 minutes. Is there anything you can do to try anf distract yourself? Link to comment
getbiii Posted March 18, 2010 Author Share Posted March 18, 2010 its hard and i try but she is always on my mind Link to comment
getbiii Posted March 19, 2010 Author Share Posted March 19, 2010 she called me today, her parents locked her in an asylum, they really don't know whats best for her. she says she only gets a 15 minute recess and her parents visit her so i can't see her, i asked her how long she was going to be there, she said she didn't know... she told me she doesnt want to go back home. im willing to take her away, not only because i love her but because i wanna help her. the phone call ended before we could say goodbye, i promised her she would be better and i told her she could call me when ever and that if she ever needed anything i am here for her, i hope to hear from her soon... this tells me she does love me and isn't mad at me or anything, she chose to call me becaue she wanted, she had called in the morning but i was able to answer and i had no idea who it was becuase it showed no number. also it seems she is there by force and not voluntary, i just hope this ends soon so we can be together, she has always had problems and i have helped her, she always wanted to escape and leave home.... honestly her parents do not know what is best for her, they have done the worst to her and they are the major reason for her depression she has been beat, abused, and so many things by her parents. her dad caused her bulimia and at one point even sexually abused her, her parents are divorced and she lives with her mom, but her mom used to be a junkie and since she was 16 she had to work to feed her to little brothers and take care of them Link to comment
getbiii Posted March 19, 2010 Author Share Posted March 19, 2010 she called me today, her parents locked her in an asylum, they really don't know whats best for her. she says she only gets a 15 minute recess and her parents visit her so i can't see her, i asked her how long she was going to be there, she said she didn't know... she told me she doesnt want to go back home. im willing to take her away, not only because i love her but because i wanna help her. the phone call ended before we could say goodbye, i promised her she would be better and i told her she could call me when ever and that if she ever needed anything i am here for her, i hope to hear from her soon... this tells me she does love me and isn't mad at me or anything, she chose to call me becaue she wanted, she had called in the morning but i was able to answer and i had no idea who it was becuase it showed no number. also it seems she is there by force and not voluntary, i just hope this ends soon so we can be together, she has always had problems and i have helped her, she always wanted to escape and leave home.... honestly her parents do not know what is best for her, they have done the worst to her and they are the major reason for her depression she has been beat, abused, and so many things by her parents. her dad caused her bulimia and at one point even sexually abused her, her parents are divorced and she lives with her mom, but her mom used to be a junkie and since she was 16 she had to work to feed her to little brothers and take care of them... i wanna take her away from everything Link to comment
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