I love my boyfriend, and totally hooked to him but...

[Tgirl]

I'm thinking I'm just temporary for him.. Just a toy... His uncle is a cop and sounds like a total perv, he called me a little play thing... And my boyfriend kept talking to his uncle saying like " so if i find some1 you could hook me up with a room right? "(I'm thinking, what about me?) Yes , I'm a virgin... n his uncle is like, " I could get 1000 for you " Then my boyfriend goes on talking about him not being a virgin... His uncle is saying, " keep the virgin " N my boyfriend is like laughing AND shakin his head no But the only clue of him caring for me is when he talks about any idiot who tries to steal me that he'd beat him up.. I think his uncle is wanting me to stay with my bf.. I just hope he don't see another girl and dump me.. the weird thing is i totally love him even when he talks about him loving porn so much.. I just hope he still loves me

[Tgirl]

I know that sounds odd.. its really confusing just try to reply.. i wanted to talk to my bf about it..but im nervous

[sisterlynch]

I think that men don't realize how painful and confusing their words are to women. They were kidding you but they were way out of line. And they know that you are too young to do anything to stop them. The only advise that I can give you is to pay them back by living right! Whether you stay with your boyfriend or not, will not really depend on this one conversation, but how he treats you later. I am not excusing what he said I think it was terribly degrating and the type of words that really hurt you and mix you up inside!

 

For the cop/uncle, the next time he says that to you say, "I have a tape recorder and I am taping everything that you say!"

 

If that doesn't stop him, keep a private record -- go write in your diary!-- the details of what he said and did. He is an adult and is in the public eye and he needs to be held accountable. Don't tell him what I said to do, keep this all private. He thinks that you are weak and will never do anything to hurt him, he is hurting himself by not being appropriate with a minor.

[Tgirl]

You're Right thk ya so much!