jony1234 Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 had to talk to ex gf monday morning about some things of hers thats still here, i kinda felt better after talking to her... this mornign i happen to see her drive by as i am goin in the gym... kinda made me have a crappy day... its been a week and i been feeling a bit better at work... now that i am home i feel miserable again... i think its because i dont have any close friends any more... Link to comment
vivia12 Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 try not to be alone,at least reach out to family,and i'm sure you do have close friends,at least one you can turn to. Break ups dont have to be the end of you,now is the time to focus on what makes you feel much better. And that means going NC,No contact, alot of people advocate it here on these forums, communicating with ex will leave you nothing but depressed,its time to end that. Link to comment
J1535 Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 I have a big problem with that also, I have never really had too many friends. People seem to not like me very much for some reason. Now that she's gone I don't have many people to talk to or go out with. I do feel i've opened up to my sisters a lot more lately and that has helped. good luck with everything, keep us posted Link to comment
jony1234 Posted February 10, 2010 Author Share Posted February 10, 2010 i am talkin with my mom and dad adn brotehr about everything... my one buddy we have sopke over the facebook... he called the one night but i was at work... i am 25 single living in this house with 2 cats... house feels so empty right now... all her stuff is moved out.. ahhh going to drive myself crazy Link to comment
J1535 Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 You need to get out of that house! Find somewhere to go to keep your mind off of things Link to comment
jony1234 Posted February 10, 2010 Author Share Posted February 10, 2010 i just put in 36 hrs at work in 1 day and 2 nights .. hard 3 shifts.. then went to gym this morning and i just woke up a bit ago... if i ever get off this compute ri got to clean up aroudn here and fill out a job application... i agree though i need to get out of the house... Link to comment
vivia12 Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 i am talkin with my mom and dad adn brotehr about everything... my one buddy we have sopke over the facebook... he called the one night but i was at work... i am 25 single living in this house with 2 cats... house feels so empty right now... all her stuff is moved out.. ahhh going to drive myself crazy I have two cats,and as lovely as they are they are also very selfish and think only of themselves, (sounds alot like exes)try Human company,there are meetups groups all over,maybe you can try to go to one..never know Link to comment
jony1234 Posted February 10, 2010 Author Share Posted February 10, 2010 you dont know me very well but i am shy and nervous to... i dread goin to the store... once i get used to soemthings its alright.. like the gym i go thre a few days a week... and i actualy met a few freinds there.. not close freinds but someone to talk to there... i havent been single long enough to try to talk to girls there... my cats are so friendly ... they are selfish though.... my brother always had a dog .. he said girls come and go but zeus was always there.. RIP zeus.. he was a good dog... Link to comment
jony1234 Posted February 11, 2010 Author Share Posted February 11, 2010 i hardly ate last night...i slept good but waken up feeling like crap.. i got so much stuff to do and no ambition... Link to comment
kvb10 Posted February 11, 2010 Share Posted February 11, 2010 I'm right there with you jony... have had some good days, but still having some crappy days too. everyone says we're going to heal so i guess we have no other choice but to believe them and keep trying to move on. hope your day gets better... let everything out... if you need to sit around and do nothing for a few hours, then i dont see anything wrong with is. ive let myself lay in bed a whole day before and once all of the emotions got out, i was able to have a good day the next day. Link to comment
jony1234 Posted February 11, 2010 Author Share Posted February 11, 2010 i am going to gym now with my brother.. then i got to get a few things to getdone today.. i got to work tomrow... need groceries... Link to comment
jony1234 Posted February 11, 2010 Author Share Posted February 11, 2010 grocerie store sucks too many hearts and people buying flowers... i am glad i got to work on v day ... Link to comment
J1535 Posted February 11, 2010 Share Posted February 11, 2010 No work for me on v day.. Going to the store is hard though, seeing everything for v day doesn't help Link to comment
jony1234 Posted February 11, 2010 Author Share Posted February 11, 2010 i never even thought about it till i went in and seen all the ballons and flowers... i always got her flowers.. uaualy 12 roses... and chinese food if i wanst working Link to comment
jony1234 Posted February 11, 2010 Author Share Posted February 11, 2010 i got to shut up about her i know.... Link to comment
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