Trancefan Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 I'm starting to get close to person and I think we are going to move up to making out soon. I have a concern how ever , I know its natural to get a boner while kissing like that. Err but lets say I get an erection when we do it. Lets assume that my Blank is pointing down , that can be uncomfortable with an erection . How can I switch it up , if you know what i mean. Is it something I have to do sneaky ? Can I even do it sneaky when were pressed up against each other like that ? Should I be open about it ? How can she take my hand that did switching later and hold it ? Won't she be grossed out by touching my hand that did that ? I like to consider my thing long Can I do something like strategic dressing to cover up my erection or what ? Or should I flaunt it , letting everyone know about it , yelling at the top of my lungs ? lol ( Just kidding ) Link to comment
WomanWriter Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 Hmm..I didn't know guys had this concern. Can you wear underwear with more give so that you don't have to adjust anything? I've never seen a guy I've dated stick his hands in his pants and adjust himself except maybe on the outside. Can you be discreet? Link to comment
HouseKitten Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 Wear baggy pants. Problem solved. Why would she be 'grossed out' by touching a hand you used to touch your penis? How old are you two? Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 Don't flip it, unzip it.. Seriously don't wear pants that are constricting. Even at my age I still get uncontrollable boners from just making out. Its natural and most women would take it as a compliment. Link to comment
Trancefan Posted February 5, 2010 Author Share Posted February 5, 2010 I wear both baggy and tight clothes but the only thing that seems to have enough room so it erm flips , is gym pants. We are both 16. Link to comment
WomanWriter Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 Don't flip it, unzip it.. Seriously don't wear pants that are constricting. Even at my age I still get uncontrollable boners from just making out. Its natural and most women would take it as a compliment. It is a compliment. I used to be offended when I was younger, though, so depending on how old you are, she might be too. Link to comment
tastytoothpaste Posted February 6, 2010 Share Posted February 6, 2010 Guys grab their junk all day long. Adjusting is nothing new to our eyes. You're over-thinking this one. Just casually reach down there and fix it if you have to, but your best bet would be to wear pants that are lest constricting, as the other posters have pointed out. Don't be embarrassed about it. I kind of like when a guy gets a boner when we make out. It lets me know that I turn him on. Link to comment
Trancefan Posted February 6, 2010 Author Share Posted February 6, 2010 Thanks everyone ! I really appreciate the advice , to hide it I guess Ill have to find baggy pants and get a belt. I didn't mean to over think it im just a little nervous. Housekitten I don't understand how she couldn't be grossed out ? Am I just to young ? or what ? Link to comment
tastytoothpaste Posted February 6, 2010 Share Posted February 6, 2010 You don't have to hide it, I just think you'd be more comfortable with some baggier pants. Is she also 16? If so, I'm pretty certain that she'll be understanding when and if that happens. Link to comment
Trancefan Posted February 6, 2010 Author Share Posted February 6, 2010 She has been with other guys my age , now that I think about it I bet it has happened to her before. Link to comment
tastytoothpaste Posted February 6, 2010 Share Posted February 6, 2010 I know it has. If she's fooled around with other guys, that's not something that's going to surprise, shock, or offend her. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted February 6, 2010 Share Posted February 6, 2010 Housekitten I don't understand how she couldn't be grossed out ? If you adjust on the outside of your clothing, then there's not much to be grossed out about. But, if you put your hand inside and adjust by actually touching yourself, then I think it throws a whole other grossness about it, lol. Whatever you do, do not put your hand inside to adjust. That's the key. Link to comment
tastytoothpaste Posted February 6, 2010 Share Posted February 6, 2010 If you adjust on the outside of your clothing, then there's not much to be grossed out about. But, if you put your hand inside and adjust by actually touching yourself, then I think it throws a whole other grossness about it, lol. Whatever you do, do not put your hand inside to adjust. That's the key. Yes exactly. It seems like most guys can adjust just by grabbing and lifting the waist of their pants. I think that by doing that, it allows room for it to sit facing up instead of down. Link to comment
konstantine Posted February 6, 2010 Share Posted February 6, 2010 Can't you just dress to one side? That way even if it "grows", it will just stay to the side. I don't know, that's how it seems like most guys do it. Link to comment
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