Why don't girls ask out Guys

[Krusty_47]

I have been in a situation alot. My "flirt radar" is in a constant state of malfunction. I can never tell if a girl likes me or not. I just wish they would ask me out. I've been trying to get over my ex or doing the trying to get her back thing but I would love to go out on some dates with other people but I just would love to have a girl ask me out. Women help me out here.

[Mar]

Well, think about it this way: you don't ask out THEM.....why not? Shyness? Insecurity? That's the same reason they don't ask you out. Not to mention that, sad to say, it's still considered the "man's job" to ask out the girl in a lot of women's minds!

 

Mar

[jjadgemini88]

leave it allllll up to the man, that's right....we can take all the pressure, dont worry about us...sheesh

[Mar]

I wasn't saying it was RIGHT, JJ-just that that's how it's traditionally been known to be. And trying to point out that girls have the same insecurities that guys do. Relax!

 

Mar

[SweetGemini]

Hi there,

I used to really like this guy and asked him out several times, although he always had excuses, i gave up because i knew he was not interested, yeah it hurts abit when u get rejected but u get over it... oh by the way, he now asks me out and i reject him!! why? because im so over him now! He had his chance!! but now im in a beautiful relationship with a guy that adores and loves me to death!! He treats me like a real princess!!

[Happy_Go_Lucky_Heb]

I think it's a stereotypical thing. It's almost like girls are people who get away with everything whilst guys go chasing around after them and it's like they want all the attention or something coz yea they sure don't go around asking guys out as much as guys as girls out, that's got a lot to say about things.

 

Heb

[Happy_Go_Lucky_Heb]

lol I better clarify myself before I get slammed and this disccusion gets heated.

 

It's a stereotypical thing, that's what a lotta guys are meant to believe in a way that we gotta do everything for the girl - no hitting her, paying for her all the time, taking care of her etc etc get what I mean? They're all powerful and they get away with a lot of things - that's the impression we get.

 

There's going to be a lot of girls who won't be like that and there'll be a lot who'll be in denail coz they think it's a bad thing but it's not too bad at all, if I was a girl, I'd make use of it as well but I'm not so there's other things we can do that girl's can't and we'll make use of that instead. It's all fair.

 

Heb

[Losersmisery]

ya alot of girls leave the Asking out to the guy I've had this confersation with alot of my female friends and well they say that Not all but many girls think that guys are better at asking out girls rather than girls asking guys. But thats not true for everyone