van_city Posted September 7, 2009 Share Posted September 7, 2009 How can i get over the fact that my ex girlfriend doesnt need me anymore, and is happy without me? Right now that fact is making me feel completely inferior and worthless, and that single point is doing more damage to me than anything else about the breakup. So how can i stop getting hurt by these feelings? Will improving the quality of my life help? maybe if my life is awesome i wont feel bad about hers being awesome. What can i do? Link to comment
waveseer Posted September 7, 2009 Share Posted September 7, 2009 Do you need her? Did you need her before you met her? And yes, improving the quality of your life will help, as will forgiving her so you actually want her to be happy. Link to comment
sparkles4 Posted September 7, 2009 Share Posted September 7, 2009 How do you know her life is so awesome? Our minds tend to play tricks on us in these situations. There have been times when I've imagined my exes going out with someone new and having tons of fun and doing all the same things we used to do, but better, only to find out later that they've been miserable the whole time. Things aren't always as they seem. Link to comment
Lonewing Posted September 7, 2009 Share Posted September 7, 2009 Oh I know my ex is doing Awesome. She's in her fifth week with her new boy, who she's absolutely infatuated over the blissful moon on...haha... Makes it easier for me to be happy, becasue if she was miserable right now I would be even worse. I'd HAVE to go back! Link to comment
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