gottafeeling Posted August 18, 2009 Share Posted August 18, 2009 So after day 7 of NC, I talked to the ex after she sent me an email asking if I wanted some of the pictures we took together.. It took a while for me to respond but I did. It was nice short and to the point.. We spoke on the phone later in the afternoon. The conversation went really well. So I thought. I was telling her about my week and weekend. Actually had a lot of much needed fun. Sporting event, went out to meet old HS friend I haven’t seen in 20 years.. I was at a BBQ sundat afternoon when we spoke. We hung saying bye talk to you. About an hour later, she sends me an email saying that she doesn’t want to speak to me again and doesn’t want to ruin my fun! * * * ? I;m just confused.. Maybe she didn’t like the fact that I’m actually moving on>? And she’s not having as much fun? Not sure… Any advice or thoughts? Thanks Link to comment
Esteller Posted August 18, 2009 Share Posted August 18, 2009 it sounded like you are moving on and having fun and without her and she doesnt like the thought that your not having fun with her. Link to comment
gottafeeling Posted August 18, 2009 Author Share Posted August 18, 2009 I kind of think so.. I was out of town a few weeks ago and went to a baseball game with co-workers.. She did not like that at all! She even said she didn't like it when I have fun without her... Just pises me off that she can say she loves me sooo deep and then send an email like that. maybe that was her intension .. Link to comment
Esteller Posted August 18, 2009 Share Posted August 18, 2009 yea she is hurting. and it seems like she is trying to either get a reaction out of you or trying to heal her self. Link to comment
DN Posted August 18, 2009 Share Posted August 18, 2009 If she loves you - why did she break up with you? Link to comment
gottafeeling Posted August 18, 2009 Author Share Posted August 18, 2009 Well, she got a reaction... I should have just let it go... Link to comment
gottafeeling Posted August 18, 2009 Author Share Posted August 18, 2009 We broke up because she doesnt think she did anything wrong.. EVER.. It's always turned around on me.. She told me she is not taking responsibility for anything. That to me is a problem.. I big one. Link to comment
DN Posted August 18, 2009 Share Posted August 18, 2009 OK I am confused. - who broke up with whom? Link to comment
gottafeeling Posted August 18, 2009 Author Share Posted August 18, 2009 I did... about two months ago.. Link to comment
DN Posted August 18, 2009 Share Posted August 18, 2009 OK - then scrub my first post. Do you want her back? Link to comment
gottafeeling Posted August 18, 2009 Author Share Posted August 18, 2009 Well, we tried to work things out the last two months.. it was going no where... So, about two weeks ago, I said it would never be the same between us.. She'll never change or admit she has any issues.. so no, I don't want her back at this point. Especially after this last little mind game she's playing... Link to comment
DN Posted August 18, 2009 Share Posted August 18, 2009 Then if you don't want her back - go no contact. To do otherwise misleads both of you. Link to comment
gottafeeling Posted August 18, 2009 Author Share Posted August 18, 2009 That's what I'm doing... I did for 7 days before she sent that email on Sunday... and the pics she sent to me I already had! I think she was just trying to reach out to me.. then screw with my mind once more.. Link to comment
DeviousOne Posted August 18, 2009 Share Posted August 18, 2009 Your the one replying allowing her to screw with your mind. Second she reacted that way cause you didnt tell her what she wanted to hear.. this is what she wanted to her: "i haven't done anything really just been home.." then leading to you saying something along the lines like 'i've been thinking about you and miss you" You didn't say that so now she felts dumb and hurt that she has been missing you and hurting. If you dont want her in your life then dont talk to her she will get the point eventually... Link to comment
gottafeeling Posted August 18, 2009 Author Share Posted August 18, 2009 Your the one replying allowing her to screw with your mind. Second she reacted that way cause you didn't tell her what she wanted to hear.. this is what she wanted to her: . I did tell her I loved her and missed her.. but she just dismissed it and said I was having too much fun to miss her.. Link to comment
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