whatiwant Posted August 15, 2009 Share Posted August 15, 2009 I randomly started a conversation with my ex, we broke up a week ago. He told me he's gradually getting over me. Although I was the one who dumped him, but I still think abt him alot. So I wonder if I should block him on every communication medium in order to get over him, and "us"...any experience would be helpful, Thanks~ Link to comment
waveseer Posted August 15, 2009 Share Posted August 15, 2009 If you remove every form of communication then you are releasing your expectations which will help you think of him less often. Link to comment
dimnickel1980 Posted August 15, 2009 Share Posted August 15, 2009 -NC -put away/get rid of things that remind you of them.. like photos Link to comment
SpeedingCars Posted August 15, 2009 Share Posted August 15, 2009 If you remove every form of communication then you are releasing your expectations which will help you think of him less often. VERY true.... and as tempting as it may seem to pick up the phone to say "Hey!" or something, just... don't. Link to comment
faithful14 Posted August 15, 2009 Share Posted August 15, 2009 just decrease contact with him, start meeting new people and doing things to keep busy. Go out with friends, join clubs, watch movies! Link to comment
Ganjette_69 Posted August 15, 2009 Share Posted August 15, 2009 I've tried the blocking thing, and just ended up unblocking him. You really have to have willpower and be strong. When you think about him, you have to FORCE yourself to concentrate on something else. It's not easy, but it can be done. Link to comment
KiNo Posted August 15, 2009 Share Posted August 15, 2009 Embed a positive thought in your mind... Accept that the relationship is the best way to break off and you done the right thing, so just let him go... and once you decided to dump him, then just do it... I hate dumper was trying t contact their ex or something, hey, they suffer much more than you... (sorry) nothing to say much though... NC- Link to comment
loulee Posted August 15, 2009 Share Posted August 15, 2009 I am still trying to absorb the fact that in literally a week your ex is getting over you!!!..Did you really mean that little to him?? Or is he playing games because you have hurt him?? Why would you be concerned about communication with him if you dumped him? Are you regretful.? Maybe you need some time to think about it all with no communication and see how you feel in a couple of weeks and establish what you are really missing the most then.. Link to comment
KiNo Posted August 15, 2009 Share Posted August 15, 2009 Did you really mean that little to him?? No... I don't think so... Or is he playing games because you have hurt him?? Probably... Why would you be concerned about communication with him if you dumped him? That's exactly what I mean, let him go.... and go NC Link to comment
BriarRose Posted August 15, 2009 Share Posted August 15, 2009 Blocking is petty and mean, IMO. If you no longer wish to correspond with him, tell him so. If he contacts you after that, just don't reply. Delete emails unread. Link to comment
whatiwant Posted August 16, 2009 Author Share Posted August 16, 2009 Did you really mean that little to him?? Or is he playing games because you have hurt him?? Why would you be concerned about communication with him if you dumped him? Are you regretful.? ... what you are really missing the most then.. He said he thought about me every moment when I was his gf. But he's slowly getting over me, which I am not surprised, because his life is so occupied with school. This is the 2nd time I break up with him, and I told him is permanent, but in the back of my mind, I hate to let him go. He pretty much has all the qualities I am looking for in a future husband. What I miss the most is the thought of being loved, and having him giving me the moral support and physical comfort. I miss cuddling and kissing him. lol ok I should stop thinking abt it...> Link to comment
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