TBE_1989 Posted August 12, 2009 Share Posted August 12, 2009 I've been casually seeing this guy for about a month now. Hanging out, texting, flirting, etc. i've had a few warning signs from friends about this guy (nothing major, just indications we may not be overly compatible) but I've really grown to like him. This all changed last Saturday night when I had a surreal - and disgusting - dream about him. I know it probably sounds hilarious, but I dreamt we were at a house party and ''getting it on'' so to speak. He undressed himself and then I discovered there were huge warts and blemishes all over his penis! Again, yes, I know it sounds hilarious but I woke up and nearly hurled. It's now wednesday and I've hardly been able to text the guy since because the dream is continuing to make me feel physically sick when I think of it- and I think of it every time I think of the guy -it was THAT strong of a dream. I don't usually have surreal or vivid dreams so it's particularly strange. BUt it has really affected me. It honestly has changed my feelings for him, really and truly, it has. I feel sick thinking of him now. Thoughts?!!! It's so strange! Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted August 12, 2009 Share Posted August 12, 2009 I think if you actually see him in person you'll realise how silly the dream was and that your overreacting. Unless your just not as attracted as you thought? Link to comment
pinkrobot Posted August 12, 2009 Share Posted August 12, 2009 Are you sure the dream isn't just stemming from your subconscious where you've stored those thoughts about the "warning signs" you received? I interpret my dreams with a grain of salt--I mean, think about all the other dreams you've had before. In reality, probably 99% of them are "surreal." That's just how they are. I don't think it's fair to this guy that you'd be so repulsed by him because of a silly little dream you had. Make some plans to hang out with him and see what happens when you see him in person again. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 12, 2009 Share Posted August 12, 2009 have you been thinking about sex with him recently? does anything else about him revolt you? Link to comment
lakeviewguy80 Posted August 12, 2009 Share Posted August 12, 2009 you need to face your dreams....just sleep with him next time you see him Link to comment
toflyforreal Posted August 12, 2009 Share Posted August 12, 2009 it's weird, i've found a lot of dreams i've had about people to be accurate reflections (in some way) of how i feel about them, or my relationship with them! definitely just hang out with him, go with your gut and see how you feel. Link to comment
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