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Kinky ideas and how to watch porn together


Araziel

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I've always found that kinky stuff is what I'm really into sexually, but my boyfriend seems to be a little shy when it comes to things like that. I honestly think he'd be perfectly content to just have regular (sometimes boring in my opinion) sex. Sometimes it just seems like he won't get as into it as I'd like either.

 

So, I'm trying to get him to be less shy and tease him like crazy so I can finally see him go nuts like I want to lol. But I'm running out of ideas. He mentioned a lap dance but I've never tried one before and I'm a little nervous about looking ridiculous.

 

I'm just looking for some tips on kinky things to try. We are a little limited since we both live with our parents and I'm currently dealing with sexual pain due to a medical condition but I'm still willing to try anything.

 

Also! How do you watch porn as a couple without it being super awkward? My boyfriend asked if I'd be jealous, which I never really considered. I just want to try everything once! And he seems up for trying whatever after he gets used to it, I just have to make the suggestions.

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Well, first of all, I think you should be totally okay with him looking at porn. Porn to a guy is like chocolate to a girl. Great, but doesn't really replace the real thing, and we don't really need an occasion or a reason for liking it.

 

So, maybe you can ask him what porn he likes, and maybe show him some YOU like (maybe you can fib a little and show him some oral porn?).

 

Just a thought.

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Look at the parts I've bolded. You're trying to get him to do what you want, but he's shy about it. Now he's told you what he'd like, but you're too shy to do it. You might have to step up to the plate if you want to bring out his inner sexual beast.

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Look at the parts I've bolded. You're trying to get him to do what you want, but he's shy about it. Now he's told you what he'd like, but you're too shy to do it. You might have to step up to the plate if you want to bring out his inner sexual beast.

 

Hahaha I guess that's true. I'm shy about it, but I really would do it. I just don't exactly know how. I never really considered that he probably felt the same way that I did about the things I wanted that I do about a lap dance! Thanks for pointing that out, I think that's the shove I needed to get the guts to try!

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Well, first of all, I think you should be totally okay with him looking at porn. Porn to a guy is like chocolate to a girl. Great, but doesn't really replace the real thing, and we don't really need an occasion or a reason for liking it.

 

So, maybe you can ask him what porn he likes, and maybe show him some YOU like (maybe you can fib a little and show him some oral porn?).

 

Just a thought.

 

I am okay with him looking at porn because I do too! I've tried talking to him about what kind of porn he watches but I think showing each other might be an easier way to ease into the whole situation. Thanks!

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