fisiking Posted March 3, 2003 Share Posted March 3, 2003 I've been dating this girls once, and I didn't kiss her for the first night, but everything went ok that night, we exchanged smiles, looks, but the rest was ordinary, just normal talking about our experiences in school and this kind of staff... two days after I called her, and I asked her to go out again, and I said her that I forgot to give you something on that night (my first night as I described it above), and I said I'll gonna give it this night, and she said OK lets talk again (she had to stop the phone line cuz her mom wanted her!) so if she accepts to go out again (I have positive hope about this one), and I have to give her that kiss (that thing that I forgot to give it her the other night) but my problem is HERE!!! i never kissed a girl before, I don't know how to kiss - french kiss, how to aproach her, please somebody experienced help me, on how to give her a French kiss?????? Link to comment
Jonathan_in_fl1607306450 Posted March 3, 2003 Share Posted March 3, 2003 thats like asking how do I ride a bike. Youll be fine. Just go slow. Link to comment
fisiking Posted March 3, 2003 Author Share Posted March 3, 2003 Jonathan its not like a riding the bike, cuz if you ride the bike you fail and you get the bike again over and over again until you get perfect (or if you damage the bike lol you buy a new one), in my case if I fail I'll really fail and i'll loose her, so thats not my point~! Link to comment
cookies Posted March 3, 2003 Share Posted March 3, 2003 i copied and pasted this 4 u,...so hopefully its not too bad to read.... How to kiss shyness goodbye! We've all seen kissing in the movies -- the way it's so perfect, and the way it just happens. But real life is different. You're with that special someone at the movies. You want to kiss. But does he? Is he shy? Maybe you'll tell him you want to kiss him and end up rejected if he doesn't. Or maybe he wants to kiss you but he's the one who's shy. That's why kissing games are so popular. Spin the bottle The reason "Spin the Bottle" and other kissing games are so popular is that they let you kiss someone without having to admit that you like the person you're kissing. You're kissing because you have to. Kissing games are also a good way to try different ways of kissing. In "Spin the Bottle," a group of guys and girls sit in a circle, and take turns spinning a bottle. When the bottle stops spinning you kiss the person it's pointing to. But what if you're not playing a kissing game? How can you tell he wants to kiss you? Here's how: How to tell if he wants to kiss you! After you've kissed him once, you know he wants to kiss you. But what if you two have never kissed? The first kiss is the hardest. You could ask him to kiss you, but that takes a lot of courage. But you can tell, without reading his mind. Here are some ways. He could have worked on the science project with someone else, but he asked you. He could have called somebody else to chat about the English assignment, but he called you. He could have sat anywhere in the cafeteria, but he sat next to you. It all means he likes to hang out with you. And what about when you're with him. Does he sit close to you? Does he smile and look happy when you're together? These are all signs that he likes you and might want to kiss you. How to get him to kiss you Sometimes people who are nervous send out mixed signals. You might want him to kiss you, but your nervous behavior might be saying "stay away." First of all your posture should be open. Sit or stand close to him. Face him. Look at him, not at the ground. Don't cross your arms or lean away; or, instead of "kiss me" you'll be saying "kiss off!" Look into his eyes. Smile. Get close to him. If you're not holding hands yet, do it. Ask him to help you remove an earring, or undo the clasp of that gold chain you're wearing. To do that he's got to put both hands on your neck. Now turn your head, and look in his eyes, and be quiet. Smile. If he says anything, just interrupt and whisper his name softly. He'll kiss you for sure! How to kiss When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and press gently against his lips. Tilt your head slightly to one side, so your noses won't get in the way. What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but (this is very important) don't move away all of a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss! Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands, and looking in his eyes. On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ... French kissing (or Frenching) French kisses are kisses in which you also use your tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.) So, after you've started kissing, the next step is that either he will slip his tongue into your mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully push his tongue out with yours, then let him push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on. Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!) or until your annoying little brother starts taping you with the camcorder and threatening to tell your parents. See link removed for details! Kissing with glasses or braces If either of you wears glasses, just take them off before kissing. If either has braces, the important thing not to press too hard agains this lips. Otherwise the braces will dig themselves into the inside of his mouth. Ouch! If you both have braces, don't worry! During normal kissing your braces won't touch, so they can't get tangled up with each other! Kissing do's and dont's A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is with bad breath. Carry around some mints or gum, and have one a few moments before you kiss. Offer him one too. Avoid spicy foods, garlic and onions just before. Or at least make sure you're both eating spicy food, so neither will notice. Non-smokers hate kissing a smoker! It's as gross as kissing an ashtray! You might be nervous, but don't giggle during or after you kiss. The other person won't understand it's nervous laughter. He'll think that you were laughing at him! Kissing and health Can you "catch something" by kissing? Yes you can -- anything from just a cold to a pretty serious sexually transmitted disease. Also, since the AIDS virus has been found in the saliva of people with AIDS, it could be transmitted by kissing someone who has the disease, especially if you have any cuts in your mouth. There's no such thing as 100% safety. But if someone has a cold or the flu, wait until it's over. If you see he's got sores on his mouth or lips, stay away! Also, if you have cuts in your mouth, or he does this increses your chance of passing on infection. I don't want to make you paranoid, but just to tell you there's no such thing as "safe kissing" so keep that in mind. Kissing and s-e-x Kissing can be a lot of fun. Don't think that just because you kiss a guy you have to do anything more. On the other hand, once you're kissing passionatley, you might both feel like going further. The best way I know to avoid that is to kiss him in a semi-public place. If you kiss him in a movie theater or on your front porch, you know it's not going to lead to sex right there! On the other hand, if you're sitting on your bed when your parents aren't home, there's not really anything to stop you, so it's something you might want to avoid. The only way to get good at kissing is to practice. Have fun! cookies Link to comment
monika Posted March 3, 2003 Share Posted March 3, 2003 Just go slow and sweet, baby you'l be fine. Link to comment
cookies Posted March 3, 2003 Share Posted March 3, 2003 that article i posted was for a females perspective...but if ur in tune...im sure it can help u also heres a link that can help u out too..but somehow, they´ve managed to get the butterflyy and eskimo kiss mixed up ... u will do just fine, ...like the others say, relax and go slow...the first kiss with somone u like is going to be incredible... cookies Link to comment
TheMailMan Posted March 9, 2003 Share Posted March 9, 2003 Hey i just wanted to say thanks to cookie.... i have been looking for kissing tips and the thing that you copy and pasted has probably helped me out the most.... but i still dont know if i am going to be able to do it right.... i will post a forum... Link to comment
Ravenshadow Posted June 22, 2003 Share Posted June 22, 2003 Only advice I can really give is just to do what feels right and you'll be fine man.That's how I did it the first time. Link to comment
Noobie Posted July 7, 2003 Share Posted July 7, 2003 French kissing (or Frenching) French kisses are kisses in which you also use your tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.) So, after you've started kissing, the next step is that either he will slip his tongue into your mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Do you do any mouth movements? Like open (tongue in then out & close)? Then repeat? Or? Link to comment
ItsyBitsyMel Posted May 10, 2004 Share Posted May 10, 2004 Well.. You don't have to be nervous, because if you are, she'll sense it, and girls like smooth guys. Take it slow, get close to her, and just.. kiss! the french kissing will come after, if the kissing gets intense. If it's not her first kiss, she'l do the leading, no worries! Link to comment
EmmaB Posted June 5, 2004 Share Posted June 5, 2004 yer thnx cookies thats GRATE!!! xxx emma xxx Link to comment
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