furious Posted June 19, 2009 Share Posted June 19, 2009 I want to try oral for foreplay. I've never done it before and don't really know what I should be doing with my tongue. Is there another sensitive part I can use it for while I massage her clit? Link to comment
Lights Posted June 19, 2009 Share Posted June 19, 2009 Something I enjoy, and have heard a lot of other girls enjoy too, is when I'm getting oral and getting fingered at the same time. Link to comment
Organs Posted June 19, 2009 Share Posted June 19, 2009 The alphabet is a great tool if you're starting out, or even if you know what you're doing. At the top of the vaginal opening is a sort of hard nub. This is the clitoris. It's VERY sensitive and if you can twirl the tip of your tongue in circles on this. She'll like that a LOT. Just remember that, it being so sensitive, it is possible to be too rough and hurt her. Start gently and apply pressure gradually. Hold off when you feel it's hard enough. You'll get a feel for this with experience and also based on what she says. If you want to go spelunking and go deep in her vaginal opening, her g-spot is more or less in the ceiling just inside her. I think it feels a little different from the rest of the vaginal wall, but I'm sure you'll know you found it when she responds . Sometimes I like to "go spelunking" and use my nose to rub her clit. It's good to finger her for a bit first to get her nice and wet. Wet your fingers with her juices and you can massage her with those. Take all this into consideration and use whatever comes to you. Don't bite and don't be too rough and you should do just fine Link to comment
KG Posted June 19, 2009 Share Posted June 19, 2009 Big tip...keep her clit wet a lot. If it gets dry, it may hurt. Watch/listen for her reactions....or ask her, playfully...do like this? or this? She may give some help! Link to comment
furious Posted June 19, 2009 Author Share Posted June 19, 2009 I'm one of those people who cannot reach their nose with their tongue so I'm not sure if I'm the type for spelunking. Link to comment
Lights Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 ALSO. do it to the music. a beat can help you be consistent. hot songs help me get off too lol Link to comment
twofortyseven Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 haha this is actually a helpful topic Link to comment
twofortyseven Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 mmhmm it will come usefull... Link to comment
Organs Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 I'm one of those people who cannot reach their nose with their tongue so I'm not sure if I'm the type for spelunking. It's worth a shot. Even if you can't go in deep and fing the g-spot with your tongue, you can at least trace the border of the vagina and eskimo-kiss the clit. Link to comment
Dragunov-21 Posted June 21, 2009 Share Posted June 21, 2009 Tut tut, had you but used the search tool, you would have come upon an epic thread lol. Link to comment
Dragunov-21 Posted June 21, 2009 Share Posted June 21, 2009 woahhh yeahh that right there is all you need haha Whether you're looking for tips, or just some sexy reading maaterial, that thread was awesome lol... Link to comment
Dragunov-21 Posted June 21, 2009 Share Posted June 21, 2009 ..sure you're 19? For the next couple of months, why? Link to comment
Dragunov-21 Posted June 21, 2009 Share Posted June 21, 2009 Just funny that you get off to that thread. For the record, candid and off-topic as it is, I've never, erm, "gotten-off" to that thread, or any other for that matter. Tell you what, to not derail 2 threads, I'll see you in PM. Link to comment
TalELA Posted July 2, 2009 Share Posted July 2, 2009 I want to try oral for foreplay. I've never done it before and don't really know what I should be doing with my tongue. Is there another sensitive part I can use it for while I massage her clit? Check out Lou Paget. She has some great sex books. What I do is get a copy of the book for men and a copy meant for women. I read the book about how to please a woman, make notes in it about what I want to try and underline interesting stuff, then pass it along to my partner so he has a complete reference guide. Then I give him the book that is meant for women to read and have him mark it up with all his likes and fantasies. When he's finished, I read it. Link to comment
KG Posted July 2, 2009 Share Posted July 2, 2009 Tut tut, had you but used the search tool, you would have come upon an epic thread lol. ] Prolly the best advice ever written on oral! Link to comment
DunwichChild Posted July 2, 2009 Share Posted July 2, 2009 what if one has a rather short tongue? Link to comment
Dragunov-21 Posted July 3, 2009 Share Posted July 3, 2009 what if one has a rather short tongue? Hmmm... How far can you stretch it past your botom lip? (extra points if you post a pic of you sticking your tongue out) It's a slight handicap, toungue-thrusting will probably be out of the question, but most other techniques will be just as effective, and simply require you to get closer - it will be easier the higher and wider apart her legs are. Remember that having her kneel over your face with legs apart will also be good for... access. Also, dont forget that it's not just about your tongue - your lips are and effective tool too. Link to comment
DunwichChild Posted July 3, 2009 Share Posted July 3, 2009 Hmmm... How far can you stretch it past your botom lip? (extra points if you post a pic of you sticking your tongue out) It's a slight handicap, toungue-thrusting will probably be out of the question, but most other techniques will be just as effective, and simply require you to get closer - it will be easier the higher and wider apart her legs are. Remember that having her kneel over your face with legs apart will also be good for... access. Also, dont forget that it's not just about your tongue - your lips are and effective tool too. I can stick it out halfway to the tip of my chin, which is not a long ways, pretty much a bit over my bottom lip...oh well. Thanks for answering. P.S. I can't believe a 19 year old is telling me what to do in these matters, I'm such a loser. FML, lol. :splat: Link to comment
Dragunov-21 Posted July 3, 2009 Share Posted July 3, 2009 I can stick it out halfway to the tip of my chin, which is not a long ways, pretty much a bit over my bottom lip...oh well. Thanks for answering. P.S. I can't believe a 19 year old is telling me what to do in these matters, I'm such a loser. FML, lol. Meh, you should be alright, your tongue is fine Ok, I am so starting a size thread for tongues now =D Also, I lol'd, that's what I get for using study periods to sneak off with my ex for an hour or so instead of doing schoolwork lol. If I start giving you tips for marriage that work, THEN you can feel like a loser XD Link to comment
hers Posted July 3, 2009 Share Posted July 3, 2009 consistency consistency consistency for the love of god consistency. the WORST oral i get is when the guy is not consistent. he gets a good groove going, then all the sudden changes it, even if i've said "don't stop" or "just like that". don't do that. listen to the girl dammit! Link to comment
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