Guys: how long would you wait for sex?

[jonny15]

I'd stick around for a good while.

 

But then again....i'm rather desperate....so that could have something to do with the fact that i'd be willing to wait.

[StrawberryYogurt]

Until marriage. My G/F and I are both waiting 'til marriage and we've been to gether 2.5 years.

[nightw0lf]

until the woman (im comfortable with and gives me what i need emotionally) is ready.

[guitargirl1607308056]

Until marriage. My G/F and I are both waiting 'til marriage and we've been to gether 2.5 years.

 

Good for you guys, that's very respectable and sweet. You don't hear too much of that these days.

 

That said, I have to test drive the car before I buy it.

[LAYAAN]

This stresses me out too.. And seeing most of the replies here makes me worry more!

But what Batya said is great too.. Hopefully there are some men who will wait until you're fully comfortable and committed.

Ammy

 

Thanx Ammy for saying this. Reading these replies worries me as well. I've had 2 experiences where the guys straight up told me that I was too backward. Man, I feel that I have no hope in the dating world.

[Shinobie]

I don't know if my opinion counts since im a virgin but I'd definitely have the respect to wait until she is ready.

[cl76]

As long as it takes.

[goodfoot]

As long as it takes.

 

What if it never happened? I'm a bit curious. Unless you don't care if you ever have sex with her, you must have some sort of time frame, even if it would be difficult to reach within the confines of a normal relationship.

[jonny15]

What if it never happened? I'm a bit curious. Unless you don't care if you ever have sex with her, you must have some sort of time frame, even if it would be difficult to reach within the confines of a normal relationship.

 

If your with someone, you know there is a chance. If your not.....then it's probably not gonna happen.

 

 

I'd probably wait as long as I could.

 

That could be the virgin in me talking tho. lol

[cl76]

What if it never happened? I'm a bit curious. Unless you don't care if you ever have sex with her, you must have some sort of time frame, even if it would be difficult to reach within the confines of a normal relationship.

 

No time frame needed, because you know when you're dating some girl if it's going to go there or not.

 

If she's strictly religious and wants to wait until marriage then I won't date her (because I'm athiest).

[Manco]

Guys: How long would you wait for sex if

 

1. you really like the girl

 

2. she's just ok

 

Also take into account how desperate you are for sex..meaning if you are the type of guy who has no problem getting laid obviously unless you really like the girl you probably won't stick around too long. But if you are the type of guy who doesn't exactly have a line of girls waiting to go to bed with you, you probably would stick around longer.

 

I've always had an easy time getting laid and I would say that with my current girlfriend I would wait for a pretty long time because I love her a lot. If I didn't care very much for her, then no longer than a month tops and even that's pushing it.

[taintedlove]

I don't think I could wait for that long, as sex is definitely a deal breaker for me. Sex weighs a lot in my decision on if there is long term potential. But it also does depend on how much intimacy there has been as well.