koreangelxp Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 okay so i have a friend... lets call her tina.... tina and i have been friends for about 4 years... shes a pretty good friend... she has met my ex a couple of times in the past... she knows everything about him and me. we are currently broken up but we are working things out and are going to get back together soon... but she doesnt know any of this... my ex and i took a month long break back in march... and she requested him as a friend on myspace... she never asked if it was okay to do that... and then she messaged him asking him what kind of gun to buy (my ex loves guns) then she asks him if he could teach her to shoot. but she does all this before asking me. i was really upset with her for doing it... and told her not to talk to him when we were on this break... and she hasnt... but last week she commented him on his myspace... and the last thing she knows about him and me were we were not on good terms... she has told me shes not that type of person to be a homewrecker... but it seems to me shes trying to get friendly with my ex... and move in on him... i know i have no issues with my ex hes not attracted to her... and plus he wouldnt date any of my friends. and the thing is... i have a lot of friends on my myspace and shes the only friend whos doing this... so i just dont get it... am i overeacting? should i be worried?? Link to comment
erase this face Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 Why does your friend have to get permission to communicate with your ex? Link to comment
koreangelxp Posted May 27, 2009 Author Share Posted May 27, 2009 Why does your friend have to get permission to communicate with your ex? because its called respect... i mean how would you feel if your best friend started talking to your ex behind your back... and tells you later about it? i mean wouldnt it make you feel a little uncomfortable? its like a unwritten rule for females to never date or really talk to your exes same way goes for them. Link to comment
littlestar Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 I think she is being incredibly rude and disrespectful. Link to comment
Applewhite Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 Maybe you should explain to her that you feel uncomfortable with it. Give her the benefit of the doubt, she could be oblivious to what you are feeling/thinking. If she continues, then she is out of line. Link to comment
koreangelxp Posted May 27, 2009 Author Share Posted May 27, 2009 i feel she has no respect for me... even when i told her not to talk to him and shes doing it anyway... thats messed up to me... so im not overeacting about it? Link to comment
dreamwarrior Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 It's called code of honor...never try to make a move the ex bf...of your friend, mother, sister, grandmother whoever...it's not cool....kind of cheesy actually....why in the world would I want my friends leftovers?...NOT ! Link to comment
Applewhite Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 Well yeah if you TOLD her and she is STILL doing it, then it is kind of s****y! Link to comment
littlestar Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 i feel she has no respect for me... even when i told her not to talk to him and shes doing it anyway... thats messed up to me... so im not overeacting about it? hell no!!! Link to comment
littlestar Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 It's called code of honor...never try to make a move the ex bf...of your friend, mother, sister, grandmother whoever...it's not cool....kind of cheesy actually....why in the world would I want my friends leftovers?...NOT ! Some women are plain desperate lol Link to comment
koreangelxp Posted May 27, 2009 Author Share Posted May 27, 2009 yeah ive talked to my other friends about it... and even guys about it and they think its totally messed up... and i even texted her telling her im upset with her and shes messed up for what she did... and shes acts like she doesnt even know what im talking about Link to comment
koreangelxp Posted May 27, 2009 Author Share Posted May 27, 2009 Some women are plain desperate lol oh i know she is... why are you trying to go after my ex? and we have been together off and on for 3 years!!! and hes my first love too!! its not like im going and finding her ex husband and trying to get all nice and flirty with him... she would be mad if i did that... Link to comment
dreamwarrior Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 For petes sakes alive...with all the freakin guys in the world to choose from...she is going to single out your ex...how pathetic...downright disgusting....that is NO friend! It's like hey chick have some self-respect...your trying to fix things with him right now and she is trying to spin her web...so uncool ! Link to comment
littlestar Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 Just the thought of going after any of my friends ex's makes me sick to the stomach....ewwww. Although a friend of mine (male) recently started going out with his ex's sister and i find that quite ewww. lol. Link to comment
NatNat Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 her asking to be friends with him on myspace and fine...asking what kind of guy to buy is fine....BUT when she ask him to help her learn how to shoot was passing the line....WATCH OUT for her... Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 I had a friend like this. Emphasis on HAD. All of her boyfriends through the years were the rest of the group's left overs. The one boy that wasn't one of our exes, she told me years down the line that she really felt good because she thought he liked me. She felt like she had won. So, messed up. Also, her big thing was "were only friends", "a guy and a girl CAN'T be friends?!"... She'd get so upset whenever we'd allude to the fact that they;d most likely start dating since they hung out so much....And they always DID start dating. ugh. Haven't heard from her in a while...not worth the drama. Only insecure girls do this. Link to comment
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