Soooo down...

[DJBaby]

After months of countless heart-to-hearts, long periods of no contact, emotional confessions, therapy, pushing and pulling, self-help books, etc., my ex and I have finally agreed we won't work. It's not me forcing no contact now; it's mutual... and final.

 

They were 4 of the best years of my life because of him. I will miss him terribly.

[Xplode]

i know the feeling, once the understanding is there. it will be easier.

and remember, dont reminisce, - out of mind. out of site. = out of your life.

[MinziGirl]

Do you have any girlfriend buddy? Go hang out with them or do something on your own. Main thing is: Do something else!

 

Don't sit in your house & think about him... It will only make it worse...

[NightLily]

I'm sorry. A break up like that can be really hard.. hm. If this gives you any comfort, know that you can walk away doing everything you could to make it work. There can be no regrets in that.

[IMAbadman]

You gave it your all. Nothing more can be done. You can now move on with no regrets.

[MinziGirl]

With time, it will become better.. The only thing is not to sit there the whole day & pout over it. That will make it worse.

[DJBaby]

Thanks for the words of encouragement everyone.

 

With time, it will become better.. The only thing is not to sit there the whole day & pout over it. That will make it worse.

 

Don't worry- I'm not really the sit around and pout type. I posted so I don't have to do that

[drewciouS281]

well atleast you guys were adult enough to realize this now. some people keep it going living miserably. Good job!

[1MoreChance]

I'm really sorry to hear that. It sounds like you tried very hard. You will get closure in time.

 

take care.

[lionquack]

Keep busy and you wont ponder as much. Trust me. I have kept myself busy since I split with my ex. I makesure my evenigns are filled to the point I am exhausted. it works!

[DJBaby]

Thanks guys... I appreciate the encouraging words.