Get her back =/

[Mr SIBLEY]

Me and my ex ended last Saturday. After about 3 months together, however this was filled with consistant arguing. As well as me lying to her and her kissing another guy. I was the dumper and she didn't take it all too well. I've had very abusive texts and the like. I haven't told I wanted her back, but haven't been rude to her.

 

I spoke to one of her friends about two days ago and after I'd had my earful from her, she said that my ex was always crying and said that "I was too good for her" which made me wonder.

 

What should my next move be?

 

Any help would be appreciated.

[The_411]

The Talented Mr. Sibley,

 

 

More information is need regarding the break-up to better diagnose the problems and work on solutions

[Mr SIBLEY]

The Talented Mr. Sibley,

 

Wasn't sure whether you were being sarcastic. I would assume so.

My friend told me to text her exactly how I feel but I think that would be a mistake.

[The_411]

No sarcasm you do need to explain what happened otherwise it's hard to figure out how to proceed.

 

1) Texting is not for men. Think about the act of texting how you feel ...how wussy is that? You're not man enough to tell her face to face or even write a hand written note? Obviously you can see her but texting is such a terrible way of communicating.

 

2) Expressing how you feel is good .... just not to your ex.

 

3) 3 months is a really short relationship and it also means that you didn't even make it out of the honeymoon stage.

 

4) She was cheating after three months?

 

My advice is get the hell away from her. She's bad news and in no position to be in a relationship.

[HeartGoesOn]

Your next move should be to run as fast as you can away from her.

 

After only being together for only 3 months, and she's lying, and kissing other guys! Where do think this is going?

[intolerable]

I agree with what a lot of people here. It sounds like this girl isn't ready for a relationship.

 

Run away as fast and far as you can.