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  1. The_411
    Let's see it's been just over 5 1/2 months and prior to that it had been 2 1/2 months. Feel worse now than ever as I've had a myriad of my own personal problems since we broke up. It has to do with me and that's why I miss her. I'm not happy with my life so I feel like I need her and the relationship. It's been over for 10 1/2 months.
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    Well, We were out of contact except for business matters. She's angry it seems altough I should be absolutely livid at her. today was the last contact for business so tomorrow officially starts day 1. She's pretty screwed up and she's still a mess so if she contacts me I don't expect it for a year or longer, but we'll see.
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    Broke NC to for a business issue. Not personal e-mail or what not. Purely business. She didn't respond which was somewhat of a surprise. My guess is she is coming up with her counter offer. Laff I talked with her new roommate's ex fiance who said he would have * * * * * ed out my ex for her behavior had she said anything.
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    Better day tody saw lots and lots of friends a friend's baby shower. Don't think about her as much and I actually laughed really hard a few times today. Granted baby shower made realize that all of my friends are married and having kids it seems. 10 days is 1/3rd of the way through. Tomorrow will be fairly tough as it would have been our two year anniversary of being together. Next milestone date is Thanksgiving (Day 14).
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    Not a good day for me, but I know that I cannot talk to her because doing so will resolve nothing.
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    We still have one outstanding issue left but I don't have to contest it. I'm still deciding whether to fight or jsut let her suffer with the loss of me. She may not feel it now but down the road she'll be in miserable pain. How do I feel? Well I'm going through sadness, anger, denial so all three of the first three stages. I'm angry becuase my ex did somethign so damn foolish and is basically throwing away the best thing in her life. I'm sad because I miss her a great deal we were best friends, lovers, confidants. denial because it jsut seems like yesterday we weer on vacation in Hawaii and I was about to propose to her.
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    I've been broken up since 9/30/07 but due to complex financial issues i.e lease, car etc we've been in Contact. However only the car issue remains. Today is day 4 of NC. I've gone through lots of emotions from extreme sadness to great anger, relief, and cycling through over and over again. My ex neeeds serious help so it's hard to see her self destruct. She said that our relationship was too perfect and I was too good for her and she didn't deserve me. What a load of crap eh? Right now I'm pissed at her because we were close to being married and she threw it all way for a very very stupid reason. I'm moving on but she's going to flounder because her decision is alienating her "friends" and she'll likely be isolated.
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