tulipsfav Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 Calling all Men! What qualities do you look for in a Woman? Link to comment
hmm1 Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 Intelligence, modesty (so incredibly rare), politeness, honesty. Link to comment
Jeremiah Johnson Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 Courage, patience, wisdom, forgiveness, and nice eyes. If she can do ten pull-ups, that's pretty cool, too. Link to comment
arak Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 i like this thread keep them rolling in guys Link to comment
ponyboy Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 Intelligence, modesty (so incredibly rare), politeness, honesty. You forgot Beauty Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 I'm interested in hearing the answers...... Link to comment
purpleduckie Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 these qualities are all subjective. one person's idea of beauty/politeness/courage/etc differs from another. who cares what men look for. worry about who you are. do you know what YOU want? Link to comment
SoMuchLove Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 Everyone is different. For me... Sense of humor common interest intellectual(not a super geek just someone who can talk about more than mundane supefical stuff) open-minded Looks Adventurous Thats it for me Link to comment
Lowconfidence Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 Emotional and Physical Fidelity Physically fit or tries in moderation More girl friends than guy friends Doesn't spend too much time on the internet Affectionate Family-oriented Link to comment
Elsewhere Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 Everyone is different. For me... Sense of humor common interest intellectual(not a super geek just someone who can talk about more than mundane supefical stuff) open-minded Looks Adventurous Thats it for me Hi, can you explain that? I guess I know what open-minded means but in what situation did you realize that it's important? Why couldn't you be with someone who is not open minded? Link to comment
wazza Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 Good looks are always a plus. based on my experience I like someone who is confident and is not very sensitive to jokes (my ex would take everything i said the wrong way), definitely have to be funny, not clingy but not distant, open to sexual activities (no man likes a girl who won't have sex or do foreplay with them. This is not expected early into the relationship and dating phase, but after some time a lack of sex will be a big no no), similar interests...there are really a lot of things that we expect in a good woman. Many of which I can't get to. Overall we don't like women who are likely to fight with us all the time, which means we don't liek overly sensitive women, women that are self centered, etc. Link to comment
Elsewhere Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 genuine.... haha that's the word he used to describe me while breaking up... Link to comment
Dubb Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 Genuine is a good one. One kind of women and cannot stand to be around is the rude/ignorant women in public. I'm sure everyone has seen the one female making a scene over something minor. I hate that. Also, being negative. It's the worst. I used to date a girl who could not stop shopping. She lived at the mall. She also never stopped crying about her debt. She was such a pretty girl too but I could not bare to be around that lol. Link to comment
90_hour_sleep Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 Genuine is a good one. One kind of women and cannot stand to be around is the rude/ignorant women in public. I'm sure everyone has seen the one female making a scene over something minor. I hate that. Also, being negative. It's the worst. I used to date a girl who could not stop shopping. She lived at the mall. She also never stopped crying about her debt. She was such a pretty girl too but I could not bare to be around that lol. proof that attractiveness is so much more.... Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 -no heehee gigglin....just laugh please -gotta be outgoing -educated or just naturally smart -gotta be funny and can act childish at times -no drama -no kids -works out or maintains a healthy living -in shape -family-oriented Link to comment
90_hour_sleep Posted March 20, 2009 Share Posted March 20, 2009 haha that's the word he used to describe me while breaking up... not on his list of priorities, then? Link to comment
Elsewhere Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 not on his list of priorities, then? Maybe. My point was that, apparently, you can have great qualities and he may still loose interest. Link to comment
servedcold Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 Emotional health and maturity, physical health and good body, consistency, charm, affectionate, kind, flexible, open-minded, earthy, witty, intelligent, frugal, realistic, socially adept, accomplished, spiritual/intellectually lively, talented, secure, independent, sexy and passionate. Link to comment
Elsewhere Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 Emotional health and maturity, physical health and good body, consistency, charm, affectionate, kind, flexible, open-minded, earthy, witty, intelligent, frugal, realistic, socially adept, accomplished, spiritual/intellectually lively, talented, secure, independent, sexy and passionate. Pfft, that's easy... LOL honestly I guess you named all the positive human qualities in a dictionary Link to comment
servedcold Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 Emotional health and maturity, physical health and good body, consistency, charm, affectionate, kind, flexible, open-minded, earthy, witty, intelligent, frugal, realistic, socially adept, accomplished, spiritual/intellectually lively, talented, secure, independent, sexy and passionate. Pfft, that's easy... LOL honestly I guess you named all the positive human qualities in a dictionary Not at all, here's a very different type that some men love but I don't fancy, in fact many men would call the below the perfect wife, let's call her "the grown-up cheerleader" or Reese Witherspoon in "Election" or "the blonde monster": Spontaneous and exciting, blonde (colored) and tan, extremely feminine, disciplined and organized, strong organized religious beliefs, attention to detail, romantic, loves sports, not challenging intellectually, submissive in relationships, popular, few sex partners (ostensibly), pays lots of attention to her appearance. The first list is exactly the same as what I bring to the table, so it's what I expect. Have never found them all in one woman, still looking. Link to comment
Elsewhere Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 I'm thinking most women are a mixture of both types and that's why you're still looking. What also came to my mind: "We love people not for something, but despite something." You might end up totally in love with a girl totally say "submissive in relationship etc" cause she'll have that "thing". Just my life story Link to comment
servedcold Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 You might end up totally in love with a girl totally say "submissive in relationship etc" cause she'll have that "thing". Just my life story There's lots of wisdom in that point also. Despite all the criteria lists in the world, we often have little control over whom we fall for. Link to comment
Bambino Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 Honesty, intelligence, and kindness. It also helps if she has big, soft, * * * * and an ass that wiggles. Not fat, just curvy. Link to comment
InBruges Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 I like girls that talk and smile a lot - the really happy ones. How she treats other people is really important. It's not enough for her to be nice to me... her kindness needs to be something that extends accross the board. I'm also attracted to eccentricity... if she dresses colorfully or has lots of tattoos or piercings, I find that interesting. I'm not necessarily attracted to that type per se... I'm just attracted to girls that stand out and aren't ashamed to be unique. Link to comment
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