enchanted771 Posted March 8, 2009 Share Posted March 8, 2009 After you have sex with a girl what determines if it will progress into something more? emotional connection? how good the sex was? i had mind blowing sex with this guy after talking and getting to know each other for a month. we connected on every level, but we live over an hour apart, and both have busy lives. we both agreed to get together soon though. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted March 8, 2009 Share Posted March 8, 2009 if you like them and they act like a proper girlfriend Link to comment
enchanted771 Posted March 8, 2009 Author Share Posted March 8, 2009 Oh he likes me for sure, but what do you mean by acting like a proper gf. it hasnt gotten there yet, but would like it to. if i dont call him then he calls me. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted March 8, 2009 Share Posted March 8, 2009 it means be attentive to his needs, be there when he needs you Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted March 8, 2009 Share Posted March 8, 2009 Well, the surest thing is to not have sex with a guy until AFTER the relationship becomes official. When sex happens during the getting to know you stage the sex is irrelevant to whether or not a relationship will follow. There is no magic bullet for making the relationship happen...either the two people connect on the other levels enough for the guy to want to make it a real relationship, or they don't connect on any deeper level and the relationship either fizzles out or just becomes a friends with benefits type deal. So there is really nothing you can do except be who you always are and just see how things go. Link to comment
ponyboy Posted March 8, 2009 Share Posted March 8, 2009 What determines if it progresses to something more is if the two plan to see each other again, and again, and again lol. If he constantly wants to see you and the two of you do things other than sex sometimes, then its a good chance he enjoys your company and the relationship will just naturally progress. Link to comment
enchanted771 Posted March 8, 2009 Author Share Posted March 8, 2009 What determines if it progresses to something more is if the two plan to see each other again, and again, and again lol. If he constantly wants to see you and the two of you do things other than sex sometimes, then its a good chance he enjoys your company and the relationship will just naturally progress. we would love to see each other more, but the distance is a real problem. i will just have to wait and see. Link to comment
annie24 Posted March 8, 2009 Share Posted March 8, 2009 i think it comes down to the 'click' and if he feels he wants something more from you. i don't think there is any one-size-fits-all approach here. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 i don't link sex to dating. it's part of a relationship, but if it's terrible, i really will not date them. but i have to have a connection. Link to comment
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