The "Head" [16+]

[ilovethatgirl]

Always careful to rate these things

 

Okay, so there's something I'm curious about. Be warned, I'm not sugar-coating my language, its just pretty bluntly accurate, lol. Apparently, the guy's * * * * head is supposed to be exposed during sex. I haven't had sex as of yet, but no matter how turned on I get, no matter how big an erection, the skin does not pull back and reveal the head.

 

Is this normal? Or is this a problem? I'd like to have this cleared up.

[redhearts]

Hahahahaha. Sorry. Are you circumsized?

[leo_s84]

Hahahahaha. Sorry. Are you circumsized?

 

He's definitely not cause then the head would show up all the time.

[ilovethatgirl]

hey now don't laugh at me =P it's not like I've exactly had occasion to research this topic, lol. I mean really, how was I supposed to know? They don't teach this stuff in sex ed you know

 

And no, I'm not... At least I'm pretty sure not.

[redhearts]

Theres your solution. I was certain he wasn't circumsized, but making sure. Usually you have to PULL your skin down if possible. I wasn't laughing at you! I thought it was funny I never heard anyone say that=].

[ilovethatgirl]

Theres your solution. I was certain he wasn't circumsized, but making sure. Usually you have to PULL your skin down if possible. I wasn't laughing at you! I thought it was funny I never heard anyone say that=].

 

Hehe just kidding around, I was fairly sure you werent laughing at me

 

ok so is the head SUPPOSED to get exposed? I've tried pulling it down, and it hurts =/

[redhearts]

Well if you want your head to stick out, then try an adult circumcisiton, however ya spell that. I heard it hurts. But I think people get it done because its "cleaner" although I heard that circumsisced guys if they know how take care of it well it stays clean for the most part.

 

Its suppose to get exposed if your circumsised because its just there, like look up pictures of it to see the difference, haha. I'm serious though.

[ilovethatgirl]

Well if you want your head to stick out, then try an adult circumcisiton, however ya spell that. I heard it hurts. But I think people get it done because its "cleaner" although I heard that circumsisced guys if they know how take care of it well it stays clean for the most part.

 

Its suppose to get exposed if your circumsised because its just there, like look up pictures of it to see the difference, haha. I'm serious though.

 

But, like, I won't start to have sex, and then have a girl stare at me weird because its not exposed. Like, it's not unnatural for it to NOT expose.

 

Basically, there's no need for me to, say, go to the doctor about a medical problem

[redhearts]

Its natural if your not circumsised, its not going to pop out. Most girls your age or older and as you get older will know that hey your circumsised! So it won't come out. HMM I want to start a thread.

[ilovethatgirl]

Ok, thanks, that's put my mind at rest.

[lostandhurt]

Hehe just kidding around, I was fairly sure you werent laughing at me

 

ok so is the head SUPPOSED to get exposed? I've tried pulling it down, and it hurts =/

 

What can happen if the skin is not pulled back from time to time it can actually grow together down inside and not pull back all the way. Get a check up and talk to the doctor alone so moms doesn't hear. It may be nothing at all to worry about.

 

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[greensleeves]

Here's some info. for you and you can find additional info. by googling uncircumcised or foreskin. Before you consider following advice to get an adult circumcision, you should research it as studies indicate that circumcised men have reduced sensation during sex. Circumcision used to be performed o newborn boys on a regular basis, but that has changed during the past 15 or 20 years.

 

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[Whiskers]

Here's some info. for you and you can find additional info. by googling uncircumcised or foreskin. Before you consider following advice to get an adult circumcision, you should research it as studies indicate that circumcised men have reduced sensation during sex. Circumcision used to be performed o newborn boys on a regular basis, but that has changed during the past 15 or 20 years.

 

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This is good, I found something similar but easier to understand and most definitely within you age range...

 

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Read down, as it goes into it in more detail

[afonselaca]

You should be fully retracting, meaning the head should be exposed if you pull down the skin covering the head. If it hurts to pull it down and you aren't able to see your entire head, you might have phimosis.

 

A urological specialist can examine you to determine whether or not you will need surgery. Also keep in mind that you can ask for steroid cream as a last resort prior to anything surgical because that can help you gradually stretch your foreskin on your own and without tearing.

 

They won't tell you about the steroid cream, you have to be educated enough to ask. They lose big $$$ if they don't get to do the surgery, you know!

[Ghost_ape]

You may have phimosis, or you may have a condition of lesser severity called 'frenulum breve'.

Not a lot of people talk about it, because it's a pretty rare condition.

 

Here's a little fun-fact of the day: Ghost Ape had frenulum breve up until he was allowed to legally drink!

 

I had to go to the doctor to get my tight/short frenulum (the band of skin connecting the head of the penyard to the foreskin) corrected.

This procedure is free- if you live in Canada, at least-, and makes things much smoother, I assure you.

 

It's a terribly embarrassing problem...and if you don't have it corrected, it can result in strains, even ripping of the too-short frenulum. (Again, that happened to me, and that was by far, not my idea of a good time... I won't go into any further detail than to say that it bled.)

 

Okay, enough with my horror stories. I doubt your case is as severe as mine was. However, I recommend going and getting it checked out. Try seeing if there's a urologist in your local area. He'll clear things up without a second glance at your privates, if frenulum breve is the cause.