would you date a messy girl?

[stella777]

hehe, I am not a very prganized person and I dont care that much if everything is in place or the kitchen is so clean unfortunately. Both boyfriends that I had were messy like myself! So our place is always such a mess and we both dont care. Sometimes I feel bad and guilty for it though, I can be clean just under pressure of someone wanting me to. Anyway, basically the question is would you guys date a messy girl or move in with her? or you find it a turn off? (I take care of myself being clean and well dressed though)

[purpleduckie]

messy i think is alright. but generally cleanliness is a must.

[lanty3]

Yes, but I'd never go to her place.

[anthonyguy]

I dated a messy girl for about 3 years and it just got to the point that i couldn't do it anymore. She would invite people over often and i was often totally embarrassed. I tried and tried to keep the place up but it just got overwhelming. There is enough chores in a normal household, let alone when the other person is a totally messy. And not just the house mind you, her car was the same way. Her car was like an apartment on wheels, full of coffee cups, shoes, clothes (clean and worn). So we ended up parting ways, and her being so messy was a real big part of the deal breaker.

[Creative]

I'd date a messy girl. It's good cause if it happens so that me and her got married, we can just hire someone to do the cleaning for us and then we can split the cost.

[Yates33]

hehe, I am not a very prganized person and I dont care that much if everything is in place or the kitchen is so clean unfortunately. Both boyfriends that I had were messy like myself! So our place is always such a mess and we both dont care. Sometimes I feel bad and guilty for it though, I can be clean just under pressure of someone wanting me to. Anyway, basically the question is would you guys date a messy girl or move in with her? or you find it a turn off? (I take care of myself being clean and well dressed though)

 

Hell no. No way. A messy girl usually means she's only physically clean when she has to be and is actually hygenetically speaking "messy" as well....that's been my experience, and I was raised with women who were very clean and neat...like women should be. I am old-fashioned and believe a woman should keep things tidy...EVERYTHING. yuck. no for a messy girl.

 

No offense, just answering your question.

[drewciouS281]

To me a messy house is a reflection of how this person takes care of themself and things in general. It would depend on how messy this person was for me to make that decision.

[ghost69]

messy is okay. like some clothes on the floor and what not. but trash on the floor or something, no fricken way.

[CaptainPlanet]

I don't care about clean.

 

(thats a yes)

[stella777]

messy is okay. like some clothes on the floor and what not. but trash on the floor or something, no fricken way.

 

lol, no not trash on the floor! I even dont go with my shoes into the house.

[ghost69]

lol, no not trash on the floor! I even dont go with my shoes into the house.

 

that's good.

 

cause honestly, the way i view a woman's home i wonder what it's like downstairs if you get what i'm sayin.

[stella777]

that's good.

 

cause honestly, the way i view a woman's home i wonder what it's like downstairs if you get what i'm sayin.

 

 

lol, oh well I am a messy girl but one of the cleanest ones downstairs! bf always says that.

[ghost69]

lol, oh well I am a messy girl but one of the cleanest ones downstairs! bf always says that.

 

like i said though. messy is one thing. disgusting is another.

 

stuff on the floor is messy and can be picked up. usually girls in college have this problem. crummy stained carpet is so much another.

[PixelPusher]

Nope... can't do it. I tend to be well into the organized/clean side of things, though I admit I let piles of mail build up on the kitchen table. But overall, I wouldn't date a messy person... it really drives me nuts.