Oh my god im loosing my mind!!!!

[jaredmb05]

HOLY CRAP!

 

 

Ive never been like this before. I got out of a relationship 3 months ago and found out that they guy I was with was cheating on me the first 6 months of us being together. It ended with an argument and we havent spoken one word to eacthother in the the past three months. I think its because he knows I found out everything and he just feels extremely guilty. Hes a very goody goody so he probably hates himself for what he did. But I just want to text him and ask him some questions because I need closure. I think about him wayyy to much! I think that will really help me close this chapter. But Im scared that if I do text him he might not text back then Ill look weak but at the same time at least ill know he tried.

 

 

ANY IDEAS OR THOUGHTS!?

[lukeb]

You have to make a decision one way or the other if you are able to forgive him unconditionally. If you think there is a chance that you can do that, contact him. Yes you will seem weak but loving someone is about being vunerable, essentially surrendering yourself to that person. I am not overly crazy about this whole texting business, (showing my age maybe) don't guys go for a walk in the park anymore to talk about things?

[Considerate Empath]

Generally the questions you'd like to ask in situations like these are ones with kind of obvious answers. You can probably figure them out for yourself, if you'd like an alternative to texting him.

[mattysfun]

dont text him.

the thought of him with someone else could run through your mind all the time.

NEVER HEALTHY

trust me.

took 2 shrinks and 4 months for me to realize that