saturnreturn Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 I have read alot about NC on this site and others... and I myself have been NC with my Ex for almost two months now. I understand why NC is so fundamental in allowing oneself to grieve and heal. However, I am wondering about how NC should be initiated. What is the difference between NC and falling off the face of the earth? For those of you who don't know my story my ex and I (four year relationship) haven't spoken in two months, since the day he came by to get all of his stuff and acted like a complete stranger. The past two months have been hell, as I am sure most of you can imagine/ relate to. My biggest issue is that I feel like I have been cut off without warning: we never agreed to do NC, we just stopped contact. We never said goodbye. I feel that NC should be agreed upon by both parties for it to work to its full potential... I'm not saying it is useless otherwise, but for me it has been extremely painful to try and let this relationship go without some kind of closure. Bear in mind that this was not a sudden breakup--we both knew it was coming and it did not involve a third party as far as I know. What do you think? Link to comment
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