nicole1236 Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 I've been in NC for 2 weeks now... but during this time my ex has contacted me 3 times in different ways. The first was a text message asking me if I'm still upset.. the second was a message to my myspace saying some random comment about one of my cousins and the third was a call a couple days ago. He left a voicemail saying "Hi, it's me.. just wanted to say hi, give me a call sometime or something okay." But it was said in this weird joking voice. He knows why I went NC, He had been treating me like his girlfriend for awhile and just didn't want to commit, said it wasn't enough time since we broke up, things like that. So I told him we couldn't talk anymore.. which he told me to my face, "That wouldn't happen". I haven't responded to any of his messages or anything.. I feel like he's de-valuing everything I went through and acting like it was all some little temper tantrum and we should just get over it and move on. His mom sent me an email the day before he called me saying that he walked up to her and told her I wont talk to him anymore and it's making him really sad.. but the voicemail he left was the total opposite of that. We haven't talked in 2 weeks and he leaves me a message that would seem that everything was okay. I've gotten opinions from a couple of people.. some say to continue to ignore and not say anything.. but a few have said to contact him and tell him that when he's ready to talk from his heart I'm ready to listen. I'm really torn on what to do. On one hand, I'm scared if I don't contact him at all he might just give up.. but what if this is what he needs to see I'm not joking and this will make him realize if he really wants me in his life? Should I break NC and tell him that, or should I continue to ignore? ( I hate ignoring him. ) Link to comment
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