Striker17 Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Okay, so I used to be very anti-social, but after graduating high-school, I made a bunch of new friends, started going out a lot more often, and overall, I'm a completely changed man. The thing is that I'm 18, and still never been on a date, or kissed a girl, or anything. There's this girl that I met about a year ago at a party, we talked a bit but nothing happened. Recently, we ran into each other at our college's orientation session and we started talking again. About a week later, she messaged me on Facebook asking me something about class registration, before you know it, we're messaging back and forth talking about work and summer plans. We are doing the delayed messaging thing, where each person takes a few days to respond even though I can see that she has used Facebook in between (I don't know if that's a good or bad thing), also, we both keep on ending the messages with questions, showing that we want to keep the convo going. Eventually she says that "we should all hang out sometime." So I noticed that there was a holiday coming up, and since nobody had work on Tuesday, I thought Monday would be a great night to go out. And I invited her to come to a bar with me and a bunch of friends since she said "we should all hang out," I kind of got the impression that she wanted to be in a larger group, and she knows the people that I was going out with already. She replies the night before (I sent the message on Wednesday) saying that she can't make it because she has to sort a few things out before she starts a new job, but that we still have the whole summer to work something out. So my first attempt failed, but it looks like she's still left the window of opportunity wide open, yet I have no idea how to proceed. How long should I wait before reintroducing the idea? Also, anyone have a better suggestion for a first date than a bar; asking for the same place, even though she suggested it, sounds like it might feel weird. Another thing to note is that I'm completely inexperienced, and yet I know that this she's had sex before. That means she's far more experienced than I am (It came out during a game of Never Have I Ever). By the same token, she knows that I'm a virgin (Whether she remembers that or not is something else). The thing is that ever since leaving high school, I don't act like someone who has never had a relationship as I have a far more outgoing personality than you would expect for someone like me. If we do end up ever getting that first date, any tips on how to not blow it (I'm talking everything from A-Z, not just the sex part)? Link to comment
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