I'm starting to lose interest. What gives?

[justanotherhurtguy]

This girl I've been pursuing for the last month is starting to give clear signs that she's interested in me. She actually called me and we've been texting this week. Usually I was the one initiating contact. Now she is too.

 

We made plans this weekend, but now I'm not as excited. Am I losing interest?

[charliebrown]

it's all about the chase. i feel the same thing too sometimes.

 

i would say, follow through with your plans. see how the evening goes, you might find a renewed interest once you're together with her.

 

if the sparks truly don't return, i guess you can't say you didn't try.

[Mutley]

Dating and relationships aren't always going to be "exciting." But if you are only getting high off the chase...it's best to look at that because you may throw some excellent opportunities away if you are not careful.

[annie24]

Dating and relationships aren't always going to be "exciting." But if you are only getting high off the chase...it's best to look at that because you may throw some excellent opportunities away if you are not careful.

 

i agree. you've chased her, and now she is responding positively by returning some calls. doesn't sound like that is over the top at all. enjoy it!

[ghost69]

the pursuit is turning into her being caught. you are a bit bummed. but it's what you want now right?