Aschleigh Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 Emotional depth, what is it to you? Are you looking for it in a relationship or don't really care if it's there? Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 Emotional depth, what is it to you? Are you looking for it in a relationship or don't really care if it's there? I have to have emotional depth in a relationship...it's what's most important to me. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 I want emotional depth when it comes to someone I have a relationship with. I want to be able to also connect with a person on an emotional level since feelings, emotions, and all that stuff are tied into have a good, well-rounded relationship. It is the essense to what a "relationship" is and it is the essense to bringing meaning to the sexual and affectionate side of the relationship. Link to comment
darkness1235 Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 emotional depth in a relationship, is basically the thing that makes it a relationship. Its not about sex, or fun or anything else, communicating and connecting with that person is what makes it a relationship and makes it special -TATY- Link to comment
ghost69 Posted May 5, 2008 Share Posted May 5, 2008 depends what you mean. i want an emotional connection for sure. but too much emotion could be bad. Link to comment
Aschleigh Posted May 6, 2008 Author Share Posted May 6, 2008 How can too much emotion be bad? Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted May 6, 2008 Share Posted May 6, 2008 If one is too emotional, some guys may not like that. Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted May 6, 2008 Share Posted May 6, 2008 One of the 1001 reasons my marriage ended was because my husband had 0 emotional depth. I need someone who cares about what is happening in the world, who can empathize and actually feel some kind of emotion! Link to comment
shay.spence Posted May 6, 2008 Share Posted May 6, 2008 I think it's the most important part of the relationship...everything after that is secondary Link to comment
ghost69 Posted May 6, 2008 Share Posted May 6, 2008 How can too much emotion be bad? too emotional shows insecurity and clinginess. these people actually aren't that in touch with themselves for the most part. Link to comment
Enigmatika Posted May 6, 2008 Share Posted May 6, 2008 Emotional depth, what is it to you? The Abyss? Link to comment
Aschleigh Posted May 6, 2008 Author Share Posted May 6, 2008 for one thing, I get more emotional ( some may say too emotional) when my partner is showing no emotion at all. I was with someone who lacked empathy. He didn't feel anything for homeless people. He didn't even call his mother when she was getting over surgery . ( that's a big red flag I learned, he couldn't connect emotionally with his mother even to say How are you doing? How do you feeL?) I am very emotional. If someone doesn't like it, they don't have to be around it. I cry, I laugh, I am very in touch with my world through emotions. Has anyone read David Deida? He has a lot of tips for me to use ( for lack of a better word) the emotional waves of their women to create closeness, intimacy. Please women, don't settle for men who don't like how emotional you are. Be emotional and be proud. If that's the kind of women you are. Link to comment
Aschleigh Posted May 6, 2008 Author Share Posted May 6, 2008 Kuiks Aren't you off to school in a little while? Or are you staying put? What are you doing now that you are not in that marriage? Link to comment
Enigmatika Posted May 7, 2008 Share Posted May 7, 2008 I was with someone who lacked empathy. That is the worst IMO. Won't deal with that. Give me an emotional time bomb of a man over a piece of cardboard any day. Link to comment
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