Dak Jack Posted May 3, 2008 Share Posted May 3, 2008 Ok there's this girl in my class, we're basically best friends. She even told me that yesterday! we always flirt in class, like she would playfully scratch my arm, and basically flirt. She even lets me touch her, poke, and etc. without complaints. She thinks I'm the funniest guy in the world! I make her laugh EVERY SINGLE DAY no joke. Anyways, the thing that confuses me is that when I give her hugs we play around like I tell her "I'm gonna give you a hug!", and she's like "no!! lol", then I tell her "I'm gonna get my hug!", and we always do this she said to give her a head start so I can chase her but I was like I'm still gonna get you ur too slow, so I get the hugs everytime and she laughs her butt off! she even told me when I do that it's funny! but like 3 days ago she told me no more hugs, and I was like what you mean? she said stop forcing me, and I don't know if she is joking or not cause she says things like that to joke. But I always touch and she still lets me touch her after she told me that, I just don't want to give her hugs cause I'm not sure if she's serious or not. I asked her to explain why she doesn't want me giving her hugs, she said she don't wanna ...lol. THANX! Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted May 3, 2008 Share Posted May 3, 2008 Just ask her. Maybe the hugging makes her uncomfortable. Link to comment
Dak Jack Posted May 3, 2008 Author Share Posted May 3, 2008 Yeah that wat I was thinking too, but I asked her and she said she doesn't want to say. And if she said that I'm her best friend, that means she trusts me / is comfortable right? Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted May 3, 2008 Share Posted May 3, 2008 ummm maybe the hugging makes her uncomfortable because she just wants to be friends and nothing else and she doesn't want to say b/c she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Link to comment
eurocar Posted May 3, 2008 Share Posted May 3, 2008 Do you want to be more than friends? If so, why don't you tell her, and ask her out? Link to comment
DN Posted May 3, 2008 Share Posted May 3, 2008 Do you want to be more than friends? If so, why don't you tell her, and ask her out?I agree with this. Link to comment
Dak Jack Posted May 3, 2008 Author Share Posted May 3, 2008 she has a boyfriend...lol. Link to comment
eurocar Posted May 3, 2008 Share Posted May 3, 2008 she has a boyfriend...lol. That's too bad. Oh well, judging by the average longevity of high school relationships, it won't last long. Just wait your turn! Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted May 3, 2008 Share Posted May 3, 2008 ^^^ well that was kind of key information...no wonder she doesn't want you to hug her... Link to comment
wayoverit Posted May 3, 2008 Share Posted May 3, 2008 Back off somebody's woman. If you're a real friend you don't do this touchy feely attention needy stuff. Link to comment
Dak Jack Posted May 3, 2008 Author Share Posted May 3, 2008 But she's that type of girl that is outgoing, she gives hugs to everyone she used to give me hugs everyday last year. Plus, I'm that type of guy lol. Link to comment
DN Posted May 3, 2008 Share Posted May 3, 2008 It could be that her boyfriend has expressed a concern. But the bottom line is: if anyone asks you not to touch them in any way - you have to respect that. Link to comment
Dak Jack Posted May 3, 2008 Author Share Posted May 3, 2008 Yeah, her boyfriend has. He told her that we can be friends, hahahahahaha. I know but the hugging is nothing sexual, it's one second contact. In class I be rubbing her back, and * * * * like that. She loves it. Never complaints. She does the same for me. Link to comment
xika5 Posted May 3, 2008 Share Posted May 3, 2008 Whether she loves it or not, you have to respect the fact that she has a boyfriend. If she doesn't give you boundaries, then you have to put them. If she's told you not to hug her anymore, respect that. Link to comment
boo121 Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 she has a boyfriend - respect her boundaries. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted May 5, 2008 Share Posted May 5, 2008 don't touch girls that have bfs. don't even show them any interest. move on. Link to comment
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