Naomi Posted April 17, 2008 Share Posted April 17, 2008 When a guy ignores a girl how can you tell if its because he is shy and intimidated by her but really likes her,or is just not interested in her????How to know??? I am referring to a guy who sometimes makes efforts to get my attention but someitmes he will ignore me like won't say hi to me when he sees me with our friends...Whats up with this kind of behaior? Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 17, 2008 Share Posted April 17, 2008 I would absolutely need more details than you provided. Does he flirt with you? In what context do you know him? Through work? School? Link to comment
sti_2004 Posted April 17, 2008 Share Posted April 17, 2008 im sure he's just shy. do you want him to hit on you?? If you do mayeb you could step up the flirting to where he doesnt have to question in his mind weather you want him or your just really friendly. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 17, 2008 Share Posted April 17, 2008 maybe you are interested in him and any kind of contact you have with him you think he's into you at that point. maybe you are reading into it wrong. but what does he do? Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 17, 2008 Share Posted April 17, 2008 again....we really need more information than you provided... is he a coworker? someone from school? someone you see out socially? can't help you otherwise..... Link to comment
jraf Posted April 17, 2008 Share Posted April 17, 2008 When a guy ignores a girl how can you tell if its because he is shy and intimidated by her but really likes her,or is just not interested in her????How to know??? You can't know until you are well skilled in mind reading. If you want to know how he feels about you, stop wondering and find a way to broach the issue yourself. Link to comment
littlestar Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 guys who ignore girls arent worth the time or the effort in my opinon. Link to comment
Edak Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 My two cents from personal experience: I used to ignore the girl I like. I became very aware of my problem and I fixed it. I did it because for some odd reason I wouldn't want her to know I'm interested. It's strange, and I don't understand my thinking.. I mean, don't I WANT her to know I have some interest? I would like her, and activly try not to look, and sometimes I would look and worry that she thinks I'm staring at her, and just blah blah blah. I would over think it bad. When I didn't like a girl, I would treat her no different than I would any random guy. So ya, it happens. Link to comment
bella2007 Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 In my experience if you are bieng treated differently and being avoided (awkwardness, no-little eye contact, blushing, staring) its bcuz there is some interest there like the above poster explained...and maybe he too doesn't want to make it obvious for whatever reason. Wether or not the person can pursue it at some point or even flirt with you a bit, will depend on them and the extent of their shyness and nervousness. You may need to slowly pull them in, possibly start small with a "hello" or "good morning" everytime you see the person. Good Luck - Keep us posted =) Link to comment
shy2cool Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 Maybe he doesn't like your friends.... Maybe he is shy and really likes you.... Maybe this guy is like bella2007's guy.... that is a tough one. Link to comment
poloplayer Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 More details needed, but typically, I ignore someone that I don't like - usually if someone has crossed me. I don't think that is the best solution for me - to ignore someone - but I know that's how I 'operate' if I was hurt by someone. As a kid I probably ignored girls I liked, but that was probably in 6th grade. Link to comment
traeh Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 See.. but how do you determine if he's ignoring you because he likes you or because he doesn't? Maybe the best test would be to see if he's nice when you speak to him. If so, then he likes you but is too shy to initiate conversation. That, or he wants to play off the fact that he's interested because he doesn't know whether the interest is mutual. I mean, if a guy ignoring you acts annoyed when you speak to him, then his avoidance of you would mean 'not into you, sorry' .. lol. Link to comment
AuthenticAuthor Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 You can't know until you are well skilled in mind reading. If you want to know how he feels about you, stop wondering and find a way to broach the issue yourself. My thoughts exactly. Deal with what you know and don't know. Link to comment
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