shau_nee Posted April 16, 2008 Share Posted April 16, 2008 day three of a miserable breakup although i think i can get thru this. ok so i saw him yesterday and he was kinda a * * * * * * * . he called me on the phone and told me he was coming to see me and even used the nickname that he calls me. so i thought damn maybe things are gonna work out. well he gets to my house and i open the door and he wouldn't even come in the house. so i just acted like it didn't even bother me. i was in a robe when he got there because i just got out of the shower. he looked at me and said, i see u have your working clothes on. i didn't realize what he had just said until after he left. so i called him later and said what was up with that remark. he told me he was joking and that the reason he broke up with me. then i told he i didn't think that was too nice and i'm not a * * * * * . i also told him that i felt like people were telling him bad things about me that are not true. he said thats another thing that wrong with u , u think everyones against u. i have to let everyone that reads this know that i had a friend that started a bunch of lies about me and they all got back to him. that where things started to get bad between us. i tried to explain things to him but he told me he doesn't need the drama. i think he looks at me as a person with alot of drama. but after we got done talking on the phone he asked me if i was ok. he also said that he wants to be my friend. i tried nc and it's only been three days. he is already talking about coming to see me this weekend. i want to tell him i don't want to see him. what should i do? Link to comment
EQD Posted April 16, 2008 Share Posted April 16, 2008 wow, he sounds like an immature ass. i would say good riddence, you dodged a bullet. find a guy who won't fall for silly rumors and imply you are a prostitute. Link to comment
Russ Posted April 16, 2008 Share Posted April 16, 2008 i want to tell him i don't want to see him. what should i do? Is it me, or did you just come up with a solution all by yourself? Push yourself to tell him that you don't want to see him. Leave him a message. Use harsh wording. Watch the movie "I Think I Love My Wife". Use those exact words that he uses when he leaves his message. You gotta keep pushing yourself to stay at NC, because the guy does sound like a Class A d-bag, and you do deserve better. Link to comment
Coffee80 Posted April 16, 2008 Share Posted April 16, 2008 Just tell him firmly that you do not want to see him. As hard as it might hurt now,you do not want to be with someone who talks to you like that. Link to comment
Brittney2008 Posted April 16, 2008 Share Posted April 16, 2008 Russ I love your avatar Link to comment
Russ Posted April 16, 2008 Share Posted April 16, 2008 Russ I love your avatar Oh, you cant imagine how much I love yours. House is just about as good as a show can get. That, and "Supernatural". But back to the issue, I agree with Coffee80. It'll hurt like hell, but it's for the best. Link to comment
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