I don't trust my boyfriend

[Mavis VDSande]

I think this situation has gone wildly out of hand because you have spoken to her about this issue and you've made it clear to your bf that you don't trust him and would rather question this girl, than accept his answers directly.

 

I think you need to think about what you're doing and what your aims are. As jaded22 has pointed out - if you ever trust your bf again, it won't be anything to do with this woman. It will be a result of your rels becoming stronger -> not the source of distrust simply going away.

 

It might be a good idea to give you and your bf a day or two of space and then have an honest conversation somewhere quiet about why you feel insecure about this friend, why you feel it's unfair for him to not let you talk to your male friends, why you feel hurt when he can't tell you where he really is going -> and where you both want your rels to head.