Should I ask him??

[hugmeup]

Thank you so very much annie and batya.

I will be sure to get myself involved in fun things.

I go to curves out here and they do have one out there. I saw it when I was visiting.

I would also like to go back to school.

I have a step-sister that is about a 6 hour drive away from where I will be living and I thought that it would be nice to make a connection there too.

I spoke to my mother tonight and told her that I had booked my flight to go and she started to cry.

I know that I will cry too when I get ready to board that plane because I am crying now as I type this.

[annie24]

definitely - good ideas - get to the gym, reconnect with family, that will be good. of course, it will be sad that you will be farther away from some family, but it's a new phase in your life. i agree with making a circle of friends there. i have met a lot of friends in dance classes, that is another way you can develop a social circle outside of him. and the school idea sounds great!

 

you know what? go for it. and if it is awful, well, fly back home and pick up where you left off. enjoy.