Just a friend???

[_C_J_]

Ok so here's my situation; there's this one girl that I really seem to like and have now for a while. I've dated other girls from our school but it keeps coming back to me liking her but I'm never able to get up the nerve to say anything. Now she's a friend of mine, has been for about 3 years, and we have the same close group of friends.

 

I like her more now than any of the other times though so I've been trying to get closer through talking to her more but I guess she just doesn't notice or whatever and it's driving me crazy. What's the best way to tell her how I feel or is it even suggested that I do?

 

What sucks is that I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. I worry just about the same of not saying anything and losing any chance there could be at a relationship and saying something, being wrong, and messing up our friendship. I'm pretty confused and need help soon as there's dances (formal) if anyone could help me out?

[Lana0120]

If there's a formal dance coming up, why don't you just ask if she'd like to be your date for that? If she looks at you like you have three heads and doesn't like the idea, just say you meant it as friends. If she seems happy with that idea, then see how it goes after that.