Did she mean it?

[Boredoutofskull]

hey I'm Joey and the other night, One of my best friends and I were at a party, we were both getting drunk, first she started to cling to me and hold me.

 

As the night progressed, we started kissing and making out, I told her I had liked her for a long time and asked her if she felt the same, she said that she liked me too, and we kept kissing.

The morning after I was talking to her and she said she didn't remember the night. I don't know if she was embarrassed or whether or not she did forget.

I told her I didn't regret the night and that I did like her, she told me she didn't know if she likes me...I don't know what that means, she keeps saying she's confused or she doesn't know.

 

Is that just her trying not to hurt my feelings because we're friends, does she like me and cant say it, or does she just not know? I'm really confused...](*,)

[Boredoutofskull]

Also I'd like to add this conversation took place(Not exact but close)

Me: No don't you'll regret it in the morning

Her: ian's theory is that drinking is just a gateway to your feelings

me: I understand but...

her: We won't even remember in the morning...

 

Well I did.

[GottaLetItBurn]

Wow dude I want to know this answer too. The same thing happened to me and all the girl said after we talked was she needs to think if she can commit to me. The answer came in the form of her going back to her ex. It really broke my heart into pieces, so I want to know what someone else thinks too.

[someguy88]

Both you guys need to resist the temptation to put these women on the spot by asking "where do I stand?" Just let things happen naturally and don't put any pressure on yourselves or the girls. I think a big turn off for a lot of women is to force them to make a decision about how they feel about us. Relax and enjoy their attention when you get it. Try to make dates with her, but don't profess your feelings unless you're sure she feels the same way.

[GottaLetItBurn]

Lol...wow...She actuallly said to me the night after we made out "where do we stand". This is kind of strange you picked those words. Then I asked her what she thought we should do and that's when she said the "I'll think about it" line.

 

Lol..2 years later and she is trying to be "friends". What is it with girls to much of a coward after they break someones heart they want to be "friends". It's like I just want to say go get your own friends I have mine already.

[Lana0120]

I agree with someguy. Sound advice.

[KAT MOMMY]

I don't agree at all with that advice. I am one of those people too who has to justify the commitment before I can relax and fully enjoy it. If it is just about sex then I'd rather the person be upfront and frank about it. I can't take the feeling of the unknown especially if I have feelings for the OP.

 

I just look at it like this: If I am wasting quality time, energy and effort on one person then I should get treated with the same respect. Time is of the essense and nothing seems fair when your feelings and emotions are involved.

 

I think if she does not know then leave her clueless and ditch her. YOu don't need to be played with as of you are a toy-and when they are done they put you back on the shelf. It's rude, and heartless and that is not the way it should go!

[Boredoutofskull]

You know, I think I'm going to take that advice, I've only been thinking about her and that's been making me positively miserable(Oxymoron I know), I should start thinking more about my own life instead of revolving myself around hers. Thanks!

[Boredoutofskull]

Also This song helped me get through this, "My favorite accident" By Motion City Soundtrack, seems lame but it helped