Clementine orange Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 She likes me (she really does, she's made it obvious) except I like her best friend (alot - she is totally intoxicating) is there any way I can work this? I'm starting to hang out with the "she likes me" girl simply because she hangs out with the "I like her" girl all the time. This is blatently unfair of me. I think the "I like her" girl is starting to figure it out (I don't hide my "fawning" real well). I'm on the cusp of being a complete jerk. Someone is going to get hurt here. Just exactly how fair is it in love and war? Plus I'd go back to my ex in a heartbeat... Link to comment
nuttybuddy Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 maybe the "i like her" girl likes u back cuz why would she keep tagging along to hang out with u guys if she isn't attracted to u at all? she would feel like a third wheel. Link to comment
Siriana Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 Oh, you bad boy!!!!! How about just asking out the one you like and stop hanging out with the one you don't like. I've seen this scenario... It goes like this: I slept with the one I don't like, but I still want the one I like...and than: - oh, the one I like likes me back so I slept with her and we hurt the one I didn't like and now she's on Ena and you guys are telling her how horrible I am - oh, OMG the one I don't like, I slept with her and now she's pregnant and I am posting on ena about that and the one i like ;-) lol You bad boy Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted October 1, 2007 Author Share Posted October 1, 2007 maybe the "i like her" girl likes u back cuz why would she keep tagging along to hang out with u guys if she isn't attracted to u at all? she would feel like a third wheel. Hmmmmm...interesting Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted October 1, 2007 Author Share Posted October 1, 2007 Oh, you bad boy!!!!! You bad boy I know, I'd be furious if someone did that to me... Link to comment
Siriana Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 So what you're gonna do, or continue doing lol? Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted October 1, 2007 Author Share Posted October 1, 2007 I don't know, maybe I should just go back to pining for my ex. That was really working for me - fills in those lonely saturday nights. I think I will let fate intervene. Do nothing and see what happens. Besides, I've gathered up enough bad Karma this lifetime! Link to comment
Siriana Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 Why don't you ask the one you like out? If she says no you blew both of them off and you're free to search someone new? Link to comment
nuttybuddy Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 lol... pining for your ex works for u, eh? yeah... timing is everything. wait for the right moment to see if she has feelings for u. maybe u could try probing her feelings by asking what her ideals are in a guy. then u can mentally check off whether u can be her ideal. Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted October 1, 2007 Author Share Posted October 1, 2007 yeah, but they are always together!!!!! Hmmm threesome.... Seriously though - "I like her" girl is intoxicating - that spells out danger, run away, run away. Link to comment
Siriana Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 lool...hm..don't you have a number of both of them???? Oh, please don't tell me you call the one you don't like and she calls her friend out too?? hm..in this case threesome is possible lol intoxicating...? that has written sex only all over it?lol Link to comment
Jayar Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 Oh, just ask her out Clem... The "she likes you" girl will be bitter but her friend can't help you like HER and not... well, HER.... Wait was that confusing? LOL Trust me, she'll get over you. And then you and "you like her" girl can live happily ever after! Well, unless of course your ex re-enters the picture. In that case, pass me the popcorn. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 go hang out with both of them somewhere. bring beer. good luck. Link to comment
Zackinlaw Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 You're not going to like my advice ... Because you have apparently led on the "she likes me" girl to the point where she has feelings for you, I think it would be inappropriate to go after her best friend and possibly screw up their friendship. Your big mistake was to blatantly use the "she likes me" girl to get close to the "I like her" girl. You are right ... someone is going to get hurt ... your fault, so it might as well be you. Leave them both alone. The person who came up with the proverb "all's fair in love and war" should be locked in a room for a month and forced to read ENA posts!!! Zack. Link to comment
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