femmegrl31709 Posted September 3, 2007 Share Posted September 3, 2007 OK... I have been with a guy for over 2 years now. I have Panic Disorder and I am on medications for it. I am trying to get better....I am driving more(not alone) but I am driving. I will also say about myself that I do drink beer and smoke. So what my problem is now is that I think I may be pregnant and I don't know how to come off of all my meds., cigs, and beer. Not only that my b/f suggested that "if I were that maybe an abortion is right"...............I can't even say how that makes me feel I can't get rid of an animal.........much less a baby inside of me!!!!!!!! Man I feel like pulling my hair out right now!!!!!!!! I don't even know if I am pregnant but who am I with??? We are not teenagers...we are both grown.......I just don't understand!!!!! I don't understand at all. Like I said I need help! Link to comment
nuttybuddy Posted September 3, 2007 Share Posted September 3, 2007 first thing's first. take a urine pregnancy test. make sure if you are preg or not. next, talk to your bf about your future together. where is it going? what are your plans? Link to comment
femmegrl31709 Posted September 3, 2007 Author Share Posted September 3, 2007 yeah with him saying that about an abortion I have no idea where it's going...I can't see anything anywhere if he wants that!!! We have already 5 dogs and 1 cat who we both love...I just don't get what's going one here....I just don't even know anything right now. Link to comment
nuttybuddy Posted September 3, 2007 Share Posted September 3, 2007 well, he could've not meant it. i mean, he saw u worry about how the baby will be affected because of your habits and meds, so maybe he was just trying to offer up a quick and easy solution. Link to comment
femmegrl31709 Posted September 3, 2007 Author Share Posted September 3, 2007 Thank you but he knows me very well and knows how I am with the children we have now(5 dogs and 1 cat) I don't think there is anything that could make him think that this wouldn't be what I want....if it is the case. We didn't think that we could have children of our own b/c I had cancer cells on my cervix and he has one and a half testicle. To me it just seems like he should let me know something. If I am pregnant it wasn't only me who let it happen ya know. I just don't even know where our relationship is going from here. He knows b/c of my disorder that I am more dependant on him than others and all I am doing is trying to get better. Link to comment
nuttybuddy Posted September 3, 2007 Share Posted September 3, 2007 well, take the pregnancy test. then talk about the relationship. you can only take things one step at a time. Link to comment
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