toria00

I've always wondered something. What does it mean to be "in love"? I mean, say you're with someone for 5 months and you're "in love" but then they leave you for someone better? What if you have the most awful personality traits and you're "in love" with someone, would they finally realize that you're not perfect and leave you? When people "in love" grow apart, then what? And if you love someone, what do you do when you find out that you weren't "meant to be together?" But it just comes down to this. What if the person you love is not who u think they are. Just played you for a long time. Stabbed you in the back. How do you know if you can truly trust your lover? Lots of people are against divorce, but what if the couple grows apart? I think I'm a skeptic on the whole love thing. one more thing Also, what constitutes as cheating? If you're a straight girl and your boyfriend has a female best friend, what do u do? If ur a guy and your girlfriend likes to hang out with her male buddies. Then what? If you're a gay male, should your boyfriend have a female best friend? If ur al esbian, should your girlfriend have a male best friend? Or do you think lovers and best friends should be separate? I knwo this guy, he's married and doesnt hang out with females because his wife is his best friend and he doesnt want to get tempted to cheat. What do you think of that? Okies, i'm done with my questions. For now. I stillgot more.

actually, its more than that. id say that im a lesbian if it werent for that one thing. ive never really felt about guys the way i feel about girls. but its just the sex thing. its like a 5 on the kinsey. but even that dont have a name. its really confusing once u think about it. and usually i thought that sexual orientation was more about the emotional thing, which probably answers my question...but i dunno. and yes, i want to be married. in 10 years i see myself with a woman. not a husband. and i want to have kids.

have a problem. well, not really a problem, but i just dont know what my sexual orientation is. i'm 19 and female. at first i said i was bisexual, then lesbian, now i dont know what i am. i know i wont fall in love with a guy because i'm romantically attracted to girls, but i like watching straight porn (i get turned on by male/female sex). the thought of havin sex with a guy with no emotional attachments is kind of a turn on but w/out any kissing.. i dont know if id ever act on it. i do like women though, both sexually and romantically. maybe i am bi. but its just sex with guys. nothing emotional. i dont know. i'm so confused.