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im going thru the same thing right now. and like today was the 1st day in a long time i felt semi-content. the key is to make urself bussy by surounding urself by friends, and like other girls. it helps alot and soon u wont be thinking about her.

man i know how it is my gf is doing the samething to me. like i think what they mean by that is that they know they can just have us a security blanket for the future but like yea ive had enought already and starting to try NC but its really hard for me. Think u should just do the NC untikl she is ready to leave this guy or wants u, its beter to heal that way

man i know how it is my gf is doing the samething to me. like i think what they mean by that is that they know they can just have us a security blanket for the future but like yea ive had enought already and starting to try NC but its really hard for me. Think u should just do the NC untikl she is ready to leave this guy or wants u, its beter to heal that way

id totaly be happy with it, even if i didnt flirt with you, but he did so thats a good sign, and no i dont think it will affect yalls relationship exept we will bemore interested in u. I at least always like knowing a girl likes me

WOW. everything has happened so fast and now im without her and i miss her.

My gf of 10 months and i broke up a week ago, this has been very hard on me and her also. She has another "bf" but pretty much they r just best friends yet it still hurts me not to be with her.

Since we broke up ive gone into depression and i am on meds. Crazy i know.

She tells me she wants to be with me but cant due to the fact that" she isent ready to be with me yet"

so i dunno what to do i cant live without her and i miss her

she does care about u i can tell by the way u write. i wouldnt worry about it, im kinda the same way and i love my gf, and if u do say stuff often its just ganna make things bad so just relax. she like u if not loves u

to tell u the truth i am the old guy but yea

i think she would be able to trust me again

SO yea im posting on here for a friend of mine. B/c she dosent think anyone can help her but i think she can be helped. SO she has a problem her heart is torn between two guys. one who is new ad exiting or one that is old and she is in love with. She dosent know what or who to pick, she know if she get with the old he will treat her right but still she has thoughts. He did cheat on her but she cheated on him too. So what im asking is who should she pick

new, exiting, not very good looking, small

Old, in love with, big, strong, sexy, huge penis, in love with her

reply and let me know who u think she should pick

I know exactly how u feel, im going thru the same thing and it sux, i hate it, to me it hasent gotten better, but maybe if me and u talk that will give us something to do, so pm and we can chat and get unbored

My gf did the same to me and it ended being that she was cheating one me, i would just let go and move on.

yea i shave, but i tried waxing didnt work too well

i would totally tell him

i mean a kiss isent anything big and im sure eventho he will be hurt and mad i think he will understand and apreciate the honest truth. tell him exactly what u wrote on ur post and im pretty sure he will forgive u if yall truly do wanna be with each other

life is so hard, i wonder why we r here? i tell myself "im here to love soulmate" or person i am with. but what do u do when that person makes life not worth living. its so hard and i wanna be a coward and end it, some times life is so good and you get high on it, i guess ur suppose to life on that high when u r down but i dunno. it seems like everytime u have something good it just goes bad and it looks like it wont get better. i guess im just sad but it will get better when i c her. or maybe worst

mainly just telling him that you are 16 and u just wanna have funand its not up to him to control that. tell him u dont wanna loose him but that u wanna have and tell him u wanna have fun when he is there that way yall can both have fun and not worry about getting mad. and if he is mad that u drank at his party he shouldnt of had a party in the 1st place

i had the same thing happen dn yea i do think it is normal b/c since you truly loved her than u ve got to miss her. but going out and not htinking about her is good, try to hang out and go out with girls even just as friends. thats what i did when i broke up and t made me feel better and eventially got over her and started dating again.

maybe he just misses u and wants u back

me too ill gladly talk to u about anything

be urself all school revolves around preps or jocks but thats just the way it is. dont worry every one hates school every morning in the car isit and wait like 5 minutes telling myself i dont wanna go and my friend has to make me get out. bring like cards and make urself notices. not best advise but kinda act like an idiot and u will start having fun. talk more to ppl and dont be scared of them being like im too good for dont talk to me just start taling to ppl

as much as i hate school and loath it everyday, its still alot of fun. with prom and homecoming and like school ganna sux no matter what so u might as well do it with friends and have a good time. im not the best student but justtry to have fun without causing too much trouble.

i dated a grl exactly like that, ay 1st itsnot so bad but after it starts to get annoying and like she might do stuff to make herself feel wanted to i think its a drag

what grade r u in

my gf is a little hairy too, i mean he gets it waxed and she is also self consious about it. but if a guy truly love u and car about it wont matter. anyways if u get naked in front of a guy do u think he is looking at u hair lol i wouldnt worry about it

you say to move on. but its so hard i cant picture myself without her

So ive been dating this grl for last 9 months. during month 8 i found that that she had been lieing to me and kinda seeing this othe guy. when i confronted her about it she told me they were just friends and that i was a jerk for talking to her friends and thinking that. so a week later i left for belgium hoping that all was good, but the night before i left we got in a huge fight. and i grabed her to keep her from leaving but i didnt for it to be mean. i ended up hurting her (ppl say im stronger than i realize) anyways we broke up for like an hour then we got back together. i called her everyday and miss her alot. im still in belgium. so yesterday i get on the computer and i talk to her friend and she tells me that she told everyone that me and her were not dating and her friend told me she had sex with 2 guys and gave anothe rguy head. i was like wtf. so she found out i was talkign to her friends and she broke up with me. I had know that her friends and her were in a fight but i didnt know y. i confronted my ex about it and ones again she said she didnt do that and they were just mad at her. so i dunno what toi know for a fact that she told everyone that me and her were broekn up eventho we werent but i have no real evidence of her cheating on me. i alway thought before that she had more morals than that so idunno. i am just torn apart weather to believe her and work it out or believe her friend and never talk to her agian. i just need help in figuring out what to do. she said she would get on later and talk to me so i ll post afterwords hope evryone zill give me advise on what to do. thanx

my gf and i just broke up. im in belgium all by myself with no friends no one to tak to. all i wanna do is die. im thinking about killing myself. i know its a cry for help but she's the only one who can hear me. i wish she zould just know how much i love her