Shadows of Darkness

On Friday I went to this small Mary Kay giveaway with my mom because my little brothers best friends mom was hosting it. I was in the kitchen singing loudly to myself when all of a sudden I hear something behind me and I turn around and my brother, his best friend, his little sister, her best friend, her older brother, and his best friend Nathan (MY BIGGEST CRUSH SINCE 1ST GRADE) are staring at me. We all laughed it off and hung out for a while. I went back to the kitchen to get something to eat, when Nathan walks in (we're the only ones). We start talking for a while and he tells me he's had a huge crush on me since 2nd grade, and then I tell him my story, and to make a long story short, we kissed. We havn't seen each other since that night and now I feel like I should be happy but I'm not. Why? The best thing in the world to me just happened and I've kept myself in my room for the past weekend. Please, if you have any type of advice please responde to this, I'm so confused.

Here's what I'd do. Tell him you don't want to go out just yet, but you and him can just "hang out" as friends for a while. Get to know him a little more than you do now. After a while, if you still like him, say you will go out with him. If he's still flirting w/ girls and stuff, don't go out anymore. If he's that immature to flirt with girls while he's with you, he's not ready to date yet. Hope that helped a little.