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Hi, I wonder what do you want? Do you want to get back with her or not? If you do take the chance...anyone that says lets be friends and if you call I will pick up but I wont call you...either means 1. I need to feel that you want to be my friend and are willing to make the effort and work on the relationship or 2. I am being nice and dont want to hurt your feelings... so my advice is call her work on being her friend for a few months then have "the talk"

If he is "the one" or even just a good friend, he will understand if you talk to him honestly and openly! just follow your heart and telll me what happened next!

hi thanks for all of your advice,...He is one of 2 relationships that I have had with a man,...so safe to say I dont know anything about men Yes he was friends with one of his ex girlfriends, they used to see eachother all the time (with me) because she was dating one of his good friends. When we spoke together about her, he told me he thinks she is only dating his friend to be near him and he doesn't like her at all. As with the other people that he "sort of dated" for a week or a day , well he got over them quite quickly and doesnt think of them at all. He is so confusing,...

Hi thanks for all of your advice,...I guess I should have mentioned that I had to drag it out of him that he had an girlfriend. He is not the type of person to play games and I am sure she didnt even know that I existed, because I did not know about her. He has only dated three people in his live, including her and she was the shortest relationship...4 months...I am even wondering if she broke up with him because of me??? He is not the type of person to have a plan B, because he doesnt date too often and he is so shy and I think afraid of really being with someone.

sorry I will be a little more clear,...We broke up 2 years ago and then around 2 months ago he called. Since then, (the past 2 months) we have seen each other a few times talked on the phone and gone to the movies, etc...as friends. Tring to rebuild a friendship. Which has been weird, ackward but rewarding.

Hi I have a problem. I havent had contact with my ex for two years, My first love, the first man I slept with, my heart. A few months ago he called, which in a sense destroyed me and saved me. It destroyed me because I was just getting on with my life and it saved me because I feel I really did matter to him. The problem is that he called me to be friends.? Which seems weird to me after two years, ...i mean doesnt he have enough friends. Is it even possible for us to be friends...or is he just hiding behind some fear of rejection? I have never loved anyone like him, and i want to be more than friends, but I am afraid he will run away again. And plus he remembers everything, the is always bringing up the past, cute things we did together, we met at the a park where we used to go to together. I do not know what to do or to think and I have a feeling this is either going to kill me or take me to heaven. Plus I found out that when he called he had a girlfriend (which he has no more) But still, why would he call or even think of me when he had a girlfriend? It is not like we kept in contact. It is weird when we are together he pays for everything holds doors open, gives me his jacket when I am cold etc etc,...not typical friend stuff. Oh yea he doesnt call often, anyway how often do you call someone when you are starting a friendship? anyway when I call he has to see me the next day? he calls like once every two weeks but if I called him everyday we would see eachother everyday. And last time I made a mistake of giving him a book of poems with a poem i wrote: I thought of you with love friendship and happiness my soul was eased my heart opened and the walls around me fell I told him because reading the book was the first time I thought of him and was not contrary.. so any advice? amberche@yahoo.fr thanks!