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I know how U feel because just recently me and

my ex bf started talking again.He lives like a million

miles away but it just keep bringing up memories.

I still care for him but I love my bf i've been going

out with this guy for 4 yrs now.All I can say is

search your feelings ask yourself who is really making

you happy.GOODLUCK!!

Thanks for the advice ppl I appreciate

it..

No I haven't forgotten my first love he actually

recently just called me and we talked for an hour.

I know that we still care for each other but I have

a bf now which i've been goin out for 3 yrs and a half and

he lives like a million miles away. We fell inlove at the right place

but at the wrong time sux huh?!?!

Remember that both of you are still young

the relationship may or may not work but

you gotta have to assure her how much you

love her. If she's gonna stay that way all her

life she's gonna miss a lot especially if you're

the one who's going to make her happy. GOODLUCK!!

It's true that eventhough your in a committed relationship

both parties still needs time away from each other to

grow and learn. She is still an individual just like you are.

Talk to her and tell her that her decision is making you

feel uncomfortable and always remember that in every

relationship there's gonna be a compromise. GOODLUCK!!

I went out with this guy for almost a year it was

a long distance relationship and I know that

he was hanging out with this girl whom he claims

is justa friend but then I found out later on that

she's got feelings for him. If I were you i'd trust

your boyfriend because if there is no trust then

there absolutely can be no love if he cheats on

you then it's his lose not yours. GOODLUCK!!

I've been goin out with this guy for 3 and a half yrs now and just recently my ex frm the Philippines called giving me hints well we actually have been giving hints that we still have feelings for each other.I'm so confused I love my bf so much but there's been a lotta trouble that happened that makes me question if we are the right one for each other. I'm goin back home for a month in the Philippines and I know that when I see him that old feelings are gonna rekindle. I have never cheated on my man but I can't stop thinkin of my ex either. My ex just broke up with his ex of 3 yrs and I don't know if he's just giving me hints that he still have feelings for me because he's in a rebound. My ex have cheated on me once but he

treats me like i'm a queen though while my bf have never cheated on me I know he loves me but 9 times outta 10 treats me like crap. They both have their flaws I love my bf but I still care about my ex I NEED YOUR ADVICE. THANKS

It could be false alarm, I had that happen

to me a couple of times. I understand you

though it could be very scary. It could

be that she's late or she's just emotionally and physically

stressed and that my dear causes a delay in a woman's

period, I had mine delayed for 2 months before. If you

guys really want a peace of mind then take the pregnancy

test it's as simple as that GOODLUCK!!

The Gift Shop

by Hip

That's good and GOODLUCK!!

I'm sorry for the loss of your friend even if you haven't

met the guy.It doesn't matter where you know the person

if you had a connection with him then that right there is

special and no what your feeling is not weird at all.

HERE WITHOUT YOU

by: Three Doors Down

If you love your boyfriend you would atleast

try and accept his family because it is part

of him. People are different my dear but don't

let that stress you out it's a big waste of time and energy

worrying about simple things like that. Ever think that

maybe you are the problem and not them remember

it takes time for a person or a group of ppl to get used

to you so be patient. GOODLUCK!!

[/b]It's normal for you to feel that way because you guys

are just in the getting-to-know stage. You need to calm down

and realise that acting that way is not the best way to start

a relationship why?!? because relationships should be based

on trust. As for your guy comparing you to his ex tell him

how it makes you feel and that it's not fair for him to keep

doing that because you and his ex are totally different from

each other. GOODLUCK!!

I trust him so I know that he will never cheat on me

because I told him there are only 2 reasons that would

make me leave him if he physically abuse me or cheats

on me. I mean it's normal for him to feel that way but

sometimes it's just too much. I appreciate all the advice

we talk about it and that's cool. THANKS!!

Me and my bf have been goin out for 3 years now I love

him dearly we have our ups and downs BUT everytime we make

love he always mentions making love with other guys

for the simple fact that he is bisexual and it is in one of his

fantasies. He knows that I still have a hard time dealing

with it even after 3 1/2 years I know that if I truly love him

I shouldn't feel this way BUT it is just not my type. This is depressing

and confusing as well because I can't talk about this with anybody

I know so really I just keep it to myself, most of the time we end

up making fun of each other him being bi and me being an ethnic minority(filipino/spanish).It's a never ending cycle today I caught him staring

at 2 guys and that just pisses me off.....

Open communication is one of the best

reasons that a relationship works..

Weed can be helpful and at the same time harmful. I smoke

weed with my boyfriend and that's fine. Some ppl are just close

minded they think that weed is bad, harmful and all that but

really do your research and you will know that there are benefits

to it believe it or not some ppl even use marijuana to cure their

cancer,asthma etc.

-I am curious to know how old they are now and what their future aspirations are. My point is that weed can have a detirmental affect on people's health (with the 1 to 10 ratio, its not looking like "a good thing") and future (being lazy, lethargic, etc).

 

Not necessarily true me and my bf have known and met ppl

who have been smoking weed for years and are just fine and

totally responsible with their life.People have this stereotype

that once a person starts smoking weed that he/she is gonna

end up being a loser TOTALLY NOT TRUE sorry but that

is being ignorant.

 

 

You gotta stand and fight for what you believe in, You

have your own voice make sure that it's noticed and heard.

If you keep suppresing it you are just goin to feel bitter in

the end and you just might end up hating and blaming

your boyfriend for the way you feel.GOODLUCK!!

Thanks for all the help and replies I truly

appreciate it. I need to examine myself

and really set my priorities straight and

ask if he is really the one for me.THANKS

AGAIN..

I've been involved with this guy for 3 yrs and 5 months now

I have been called every name there is(stupid,moron,low IQ,sl*t,wh*re etc) and he always seems to have an excuse to them. He would tell me that it's because sometimes I deserve it. Now everytime he's in one of his moods

and starts calling me names I don't even care anymore because i'm so

used to it it's like I feel numb most of the time now.I wanna cry but

I can't anymore . He's got his good sides but the BAD OUTWEIGHS THE

GOOD.I have never had a low self-esteem before I always think i'm stupid because I hear it almost everyday to the guy who supposedly loves me

I'm so afraid of breaking it up with him because he threatened

to kill himself or make my life miserable if I ever leave him. I DON'T

KNOW WHAT TO DO, I can't mention this to my family because he's

not even in good terms with them so i'm all ALONE.

PLEASE HELP I NEED YOUR OPINION/ADVICE/SUGGESTIONS.

Gracias..

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I have found little that is good about human beings. In my experience most of them, on the whole, are trash. - Sigmund Freud

OLA!,

Journey I know exactly how you feel i'm in a verbal abusive

relationship right now. examine your feelings and if your

more sad,depress and confuse than happy with him then

I suggest that you move on with your life. You deserve

someone better.GOODLUCK!!

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I have found little that is good about human beings. In my experience most of them, on the whole, are trash. - Sigmund Freud

I think you and your husband should see a marriage

counselor and try to work things out.It's not fair for both

you and your husband to stay in a marriage that's not working

anymore and if you guys have kids it's not fair for them either.

I think your being selfish and inconsiderate of other ppl's feelings

especially of the ppl you supposedly love(just an opinion). Talk

with your family before it's too late and you end up loosing everyone

you love. Don't get me wrong your allowed to feel that way but

cheating on your husband and family of 12 yrs is just not a responsible

thing to do.

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I have found little that is good about human beings. In my experience most of them, on the whole, are trash. - Sigmund Freud

OLA,

This is the problem with some couples they spend too much

time with each other that they forget that their lives

shouldn't just evolve around 'em. I think your boyfriend's

had enough of you being posessive and maybe that's why

he's been saying all this mean things to you.Girl give him

space because if he feels like he's being choked then he

just might end up cheating on you or much worse. U should

also talk to him about some of the mean things he's said to

you just because you wanna spend more time with him doesn't

give him the right to treat you like sh*t and say mean things to you.

GOODLUCK!!

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I have found little that is good about human beings. In my experience most of them, on the whole, are trash. - Sigmund Freud

Not everyone likes to go out with guys who

are "ahem" assholes. I would love to go out

with a guy like U it's hard to find nice guys these

days most guys I know and get involved with

are just plain controlling,doesn't give a sh*t guys and

frankly i've had enough of it. PLEASE don't change

i'm sure you will find the right girl just be patient it's

a virtue

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I have found little that is good about human beings. In my experience most of them, on the whole, are trash.- Sigmund Freud