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  1. I know how U feel because just recently me and my ex bf started talking again.He lives like a million miles away but it just keep bringing up memories. I still care for him but I love my bf i've been going out with this guy for 4 yrs now.All I can say is search your feelings ask yourself who is really making you happy.GOODLUCK!!
  2. Thanks for the advice ppl I appreciate it..
  3. No I haven't forgotten my first love he actually recently just called me and we talked for an hour. I know that we still care for each other but I have a bf now which i've been goin out for 3 yrs and a half and he lives like a million miles away. We fell inlove at the right place but at the wrong time sux huh?!?!
  4. Remember that both of you are still young the relationship may or may not work but you gotta have to assure her how much you love her. If she's gonna stay that way all her life she's gonna miss a lot especially if you're the one who's going to make her happy. GOODLUCK!!
  5. It's true that eventhough your in a committed relationship both parties still needs time away from each other to grow and learn. She is still an individual just like you are. Talk to her and tell her that her decision is making you feel uncomfortable and always remember that in every relationship there's gonna be a compromise. GOODLUCK!!
  6. I went out with this guy for almost a year it was a long distance relationship and I know that he was hanging out with this girl whom he claims is justa friend but then I found out later on that she's got feelings for him. If I were you i'd trust your boyfriend because if there is no trust then there absolutely can be no love if he cheats on you then it's his lose not yours. GOODLUCK!!
  7. I've been goin out with this guy for 3 and a half yrs now and just recently my ex frm the Philippines called giving me hints well we actually have been giving hints that we still have feelings for each other.I'm so confused I love my bf so much but there's been a lotta trouble that happened that makes me question if we are the right one for each other. I'm goin back home for a month in the Philippines and I know that when I see him that old feelings are gonna rekindle. I have never cheated on my man but I can't stop thinkin of my ex either. My ex just broke up with his ex of 3 yrs and I don't know if he's just giving me hints that he still have feelings for me because he's in a rebound. My ex have cheated on me once but he treats me like i'm a queen though while my bf have never cheated on me I know he loves me but 9 times outta 10 treats me like crap. They both have their flaws I love my bf but I still care about my ex I NEED YOUR ADVICE. THANKS
  8. It could be false alarm, I had that happen to me a couple of times. I understand you though it could be very scary. It could be that she's late or she's just emotionally and physically stressed and that my dear causes a delay in a woman's period, I had mine delayed for 2 months before. If you guys really want a peace of mind then take the pregnancy test it's as simple as that GOODLUCK!!
  9. I'm sorry for the loss of your friend even if you haven't met the guy.It doesn't matter where you know the person if you had a connection with him then that right there is special and no what your feeling is not weird at all.
  10. If you love your boyfriend you would atleast try and accept his family because it is part of him. People are different my dear but don't let that stress you out it's a big waste of time and energy worrying about simple things like that. Ever think that maybe you are the problem and not them remember it takes time for a person or a group of ppl to get used to you so be patient. GOODLUCK!!
  11. [/b]It's normal for you to feel that way because you guys are just in the getting-to-know stage. You need to calm down and realise that acting that way is not the best way to start a relationship why?!? because relationships should be based on trust. As for your guy comparing you to his ex tell him how it makes you feel and that it's not fair for him to keep doing that because you and his ex are totally different from each other. GOODLUCK!!
  12. I trust him so I know that he will never cheat on me because I told him there are only 2 reasons that would make me leave him if he physically abuse me or cheats on me. I mean it's normal for him to feel that way but sometimes it's just too much. I appreciate all the advice we talk about it and that's cool. THANKS!!
  13. Me and my bf have been goin out for 3 years now I love him dearly we have our ups and downs BUT everytime we make love he always mentions making love with other guys for the simple fact that he is bisexual and it is in one of his fantasies. He knows that I still have a hard time dealing with it even after 3 1/2 years I know that if I truly love him I shouldn't feel this way BUT it is just not my type. This is depressing and confusing as well because I can't talk about this with anybody I know so really I just keep it to myself, most of the time we end up making fun of each other him being bi and me being an ethnic minority(filipino/spanish).It's a never ending cycle today I caught him staring at 2 guys and that just pisses me off.....
  14. Open communication is one of the best reasons that a relationship works..
  15. Weed can be helpful and at the same time harmful. I smoke weed with my boyfriend and that's fine. Some ppl are just close minded they think that weed is bad, harmful and all that but really do your research and you will know that there are benefits to it believe it or not some ppl even use marijuana to cure their cancer,asthma etc.
  16. You gotta stand and fight for what you believe in, You have your own voice make sure that it's noticed and heard. If you keep suppresing it you are just goin to feel bitter in the end and you just might end up hating and blaming your boyfriend for the way you feel.GOODLUCK!!
  17. Thanks for all the help and replies I truly appreciate it. I need to examine myself and really set my priorities straight and ask if he is really the one for me.THANKS AGAIN..
  18. I've been involved with this guy for 3 yrs and 5 months now I have been called every name there is(stupid,moron,low IQ,sl*t,wh*re etc) and he always seems to have an excuse to them. He would tell me that it's because sometimes I deserve it. Now everytime he's in one of his moods and starts calling me names I don't even care anymore because i'm so used to it it's like I feel numb most of the time now.I wanna cry but I can't anymore . He's got his good sides but the BAD OUTWEIGHS THE GOOD.I have never had a low self-esteem before I always think i'm stupid because I hear it almost everyday to the guy who supposedly loves me I'm so afraid of breaking it up with him because he threatened to kill himself or make my life miserable if I ever leave him. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO, I can't mention this to my family because he's not even in good terms with them so i'm all ALONE. PLEASE HELP I NEED YOUR OPINION/ADVICE/SUGGESTIONS. Gracias.. ----------- I have found little that is good about human beings. In my experience most of them, on the whole, are trash. - Sigmund Freud
  19. OLA!, Journey I know exactly how you feel i'm in a verbal abusive relationship right now. examine your feelings and if your more sad,depress and confuse than happy with him then I suggest that you move on with your life. You deserve someone better.GOODLUCK!! ----------- I have found little that is good about human beings. In my experience most of them, on the whole, are trash. - Sigmund Freud
  20. I think you and your husband should see a marriage counselor and try to work things out.It's not fair for both you and your husband to stay in a marriage that's not working anymore and if you guys have kids it's not fair for them either. I think your being selfish and inconsiderate of other ppl's feelings especially of the ppl you supposedly love(just an opinion). Talk with your family before it's too late and you end up loosing everyone you love. Don't get me wrong your allowed to feel that way but cheating on your husband and family of 12 yrs is just not a responsible thing to do. ----------- I have found little that is good about human beings. In my experience most of them, on the whole, are trash. - Sigmund Freud
  21. OLA, This is the problem with some couples they spend too much time with each other that they forget that their lives shouldn't just evolve around 'em. I think your boyfriend's had enough of you being posessive and maybe that's why he's been saying all this mean things to you.Girl give him space because if he feels like he's being choked then he just might end up cheating on you or much worse. U should also talk to him about some of the mean things he's said to you just because you wanna spend more time with him doesn't give him the right to treat you like sh*t and say mean things to you. GOODLUCK!! ----------- I have found little that is good about human beings. In my experience most of them, on the whole, are trash. - Sigmund Freud
  22. Not everyone likes to go out with guys who are "ahem" assholes. I would love to go out with a guy like U it's hard to find nice guys these days most guys I know and get involved with are just plain controlling,doesn't give a sh*t guys and frankly i've had enough of it. PLEASE don't change i'm sure you will find the right girl just be patient it's a virtue ----------- I have found little that is good about human beings. In my experience most of them, on the whole, are trash.- Sigmund Freud
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