Anja

I don't think you can decide who's your only one just by looking at someone. I don't believe in love at first sight, because I think it has to much to do with your looks. I fell in love with my boyfriend becauce he is the sweetest guy I know! What I'm trying to say is, that I really don't think you can say that she's the one, because you really don't know her that much! But of course it's different from each person how long it takes them to fall in love, and how they fall in love.. But you wrote that you've been online with her a couple of times? That's great! I think you should keep on talking to her, get to know her and let her get to know you. That way she might turn out to be the one.. If you're having trouble getting over your ex, I think you should go very slow with this new girl. Get to know her, and make sure that you're really in love before you start anything. If you push to hard you might end up hurting both yourself and the girl.

dear butterfly! I think I know how you're feeling.. I've been seeing my boyfriend for ten months now, and I still hate it when he looks at me. I'm kind of ashamed of my body, and I wonder what he thinks of it.. but I've learned to live with it, and trust him when he says he likes it. I know that he loves me and doesn't care how I look. And I'm sure your boyfriend feels the same. you just have to trust him when he says that he thinks you're beautiful. even though it can be difficult! if you have been going out for six months, he really must love you for who you are. If I should give you an advice, it would be to trust yourself, and love yourself for what you are.. and don't be afraid of the first time... It's really nice to do it with someone you love. It's such a special monent, that he won't even think of how you look.... the only thing on his mind will be: God, I love her!