jammer8

hey me and my girlfiend have been going out for 10months. We are both 21 and its both of our first sexual relationships. Sex is good but we want to make it alot better this summer. we just have sex with me on top or my gf on top which is fine but my gf much perfers her on top and says she gets tired after a while. She hasn't had an orgasm in all that time and i feel r.bad about it. But i want to learn on how to r. stimulate her by giving her good oral sex. Also new positions and places to have sex we want to tryout. Any ideas as we are both excited about trying new things?! james

Hey I've been seeing my current gf for 8 months and this last week has not gone too well, so im cooking her a meal in a couple of days at home (just the 2 of us). Have you got any tips/ideas to make it really romatic as i want to put some romance back into our relationship? How can lead up to some great sex from the meal?? James

Hey. I have been going out with my gf for 7months, and the sex is really good for both of us, but she hasn't had an orgasm. She says she has been close a few times but hasn't i feel r.bad as I can tell she really enjoys it but not to the point of orgasm. I have started using durex performa which are really good but even after like 40mins she doesn't? I give her oral sex, or started to. She says she r.likes it when I put my tongue in q.deep, but have you got any other tips?, as I love her loads and really want her to have an orgasm. James

Hey I trust my girlfriend and love her very much. The other night a lad our age (21) was trying it on with her and being really slimey, even though I was there and i felt r.uncomfortable with it and told my gf how i felt, which made her upset as he is a friend of her friend; and she said shes wit me. Now i've learnt I've got to accept that in a relationship there will be guys doing that and maybe I should jus smile and hold her hand when their around more so they know im wit her (for some reason i feel weird doing that when they are talking to her).So thats kind of sorted but last night she asked if she could invite an ex boyfriend who ive seen but never met to her 21st party.I said id find it really uncomfortable as he was a serious ex but she said im 10 times what he is and not to worry as i will be in her bed at end of night. So i;ve kinda said i don't mind and she can invite who she likes. Basically its not far away and I don't know to act around him or my girlfriend on the night with him there ?

hi Me and my gf started having sex a couple of months ago (we were both virgins b4), im 21 and she is 20. in the first month it was really good for both of us. But recently i have been feeling a lot more tired (due to glandular fever a while ago) and even though we still have a lot of sex I know its not as good as it was for her. When i asked her about she said she had noticed im more tired and its not as good, but not to worry as she still enjoys it.She really likes it on top,when i sit up too. What else can i try to really make her enjoy it more?? We have only had sex with her on top and missionairy. Any ideas as I don't understand why its not as good for her as it was a month ago!? james

Hey Have you got any tips for sex in the shower? me and my gf r.wanna try it but are finding it kinda awkward standing up and we tried to lay down in the bath and that was even more awkward!? any tips? James

Hey. I just wondered if any of you had any tips, techniques and adding a bit more spice when kissing your girlfriend? At the moment the kissing is good. She likes me really gently biting her bottom and top lips, and touching her inside top gum with my tongue. I know im not very good @ kissing her on her neck although she says she really likes it. Do you gently bite, or just kiss in different places on her neck? Any tips girls/boys? James

hey. Me and my gf have just started having sex (we were both virgins).Its going ok and i guess we have only had it a few times its too early to tell, but i dont think my gf enjoys it as much as me.I don't wanna be rough wit her whilst having sex and go at it too hard or fast but she definitely doesn't enjoy it as much. she says it still kinda hurts a little but its 'nice'. I haven't come yet whilst having sex,but i kinda dont wanna when she is not having as much fun as me in sex?! any tips on giving her more pleasure? we have only done it in the missionairy position; as at the mo we are finding it kinda hard wit her on top as i take so long in trying to get inside her when she is on top, we both can't stop laughing! though i know she says she really wants to be on top ..... 8)

hey me and my gf both started having sex for our first times and after it did initially hurt both me and her (more her) we both are starting to r. enjoy it. though at the moment we are just having sex in the missionary position. we tried with my gf on top but we both found it r.funny that i found it r.hard to get inside her in that position i don't know why- we tried a few times. should she be on her knees over me and how should i 'enter? sorry to be so graphic its jus after bein r.open wit her she thinks she will enjoy it a whole lot more if she is on top? any tips would be grateful before the weekend as its a long distance-ish relationship!.... James

you are a legend.... i will let you know how i get on... thanks again J

your advice is very much welcomed, but how do i make her come just by fingering- do i need to change to a different technique or what? I will forget about her ex and concentrate on the good times we will have in the future! J

Hey Ive been going out wit my gf now for 2months. last night i asked her if she liked me fingering her (not in so many words!....) and she said she liked it, but after much questioning she has only ever come once for her ex boyfriend when being fingered by him. we are both 20 and haven't had sex but she wants it to be special- romantic meal, candles etc. which sounds nice but im guessing it wont be as perfect as all that! i love her very much and just want to be able to make her happy before we have sex whenever it does happen. have you got any tips on making her come by fingering her. its making me mad to think she only has for her ex as we both love each other very much. any tips?? J