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  1. kate1985
    I posted about my parents a few pages back, but anyways they were together for 5 years, broke up with NC for over a year, got back together and got married.
  2. kate1985
    Yesterday, I got a phone call from an old friend of mine...apparently she's engaged and wanted to invite me to her wedding. I was shocked when I found out that her fiancée was her ex from a few years ago. She was with him for 2 years, lived together, and even got engaged. They were in their early 20's at the time, and I guess the guy felt like he was missing out, so he dumped her and moved accross the country to enjoy the single life. My friend was an emotional mess and refused to leave her apartment for months at a time. Thankfully, she managed to get over it after some time. Anyways, from what I know they were apart for 3 years with NC, except for one birthday text. I don't know how they got in touch or anything else...I didn't wanna bombard her with questions in the midst of her engagement news. But I must say, she sounds absolutely elated with happiness. I'm really happy for her!
  3. kate1985
    faithful - just wondering but what forums do u find these stories on? I feel really down especially since vday is coming and these stories cheer me up.
  4. kate1985
    I don't want you back. In fact, I hate you... So why do I want so badly to speak with you? I cannot believe that you have done this to me. Not once did it ever cross my mind that you were capable of being so cruel and manipulative. I gave you everything you wanted. You said so yourself that I was your perfect woman. When we first started dating, you were telling everyone that you had found the girl you wanted to spend the rest of your life with. So what the hell happened? What did I do to deserve everything you have done to me? I gave you more than I had to give, but you never appreciated me. And now...you replace me like I meant nothing to you. And to make matters worse, you lied about it and made me believe that you still wanted me. So like an idiot, I gave you another chance. Several chances, in fact. But the entire time, you were LYING to me. WHY? WHY? WHAT DID I EVER DO TO YOU? HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME?
  5. kate1985
    So apparently, my friend saw you and your new girlfriend together at "our" spot. You are a piece of crap. Please don't ever contact me again. I wish I could say "I wish you well..." but F that. You have put me through so much hell these past few years. I have no respect for you whatsoever. I'm so glad that you're officially out of my life cause you've brought me nothing but pain. I hate you with all I have...I truly do. One day, maybe my hatred will fade...but I don't see that happening for a long long time. You have damaged me...and I will never forgive you for that. Don't ever come running to me when you need help because I will turn and walk away. Don't ever beg for another chance because you don't deserve it. You don't deserve me. I am finally done with this BS. Good riddance.
  6. kate1985
    My coworker just told me about his reconciliation story... He was involved with a girl for 2 years, they lived together and had plans to marry. For whatever reason, they decided to break up...he was a little vague on why they parted, but he did mention that the timing wasn't right. They officially broke up in 1998, went LC for a few months and eventually turned into full NC. Fast forward to 2002, she emailed him out of the blue and they decided to meet up. They slowly became friends which eventually led to them getting back together. They recently got engaged and seem to be happier and stronger than ever before... Four years of NC, both had other serious relationships inbetween, yet they still ended up finding their way back together. I don't want my ex back, but stories like this make me believe that everything happens for a reason. Time and patience is key.
  7. kate1985
    J, You're such a coward. What the hell did I ever see in you? You're unfaithful and you are the biggest liar I have ever met in my life. What the hell is wrong with you? You're not even the person I used to love. You've turned into this manipulative sorry excuse for a man. I hate you with all my heart. You and your little tramp.
  8. kate1985
    Today has been a rollercoaster. One minute, I'm happy...the next, I'm in pain. I bet you're spending NYE with her...maybe a new year kiss. Maybe tonight will be the night the two of you fall in love. Please don't... What about me? How could you say you loved me and then just leave me for her??? I hate you... Are you gonna text me tonight? Will you wish me a happy new year? Probably not...you're having waay too much fun with her. You probably forgot all about me. If you're expecting me to contact you tonight...don't hold your breath. I want you out of my life. I want to pretend that you never happened...this was all just a dream, or maybe a nightmare. I promise you that I will move on. I will find someone who deserves me...and I believe with all my heart that you and your new "friend" won't last forever. And then you'll coming running back to me. But it'll be too late. I will move on. I will be happy. Sure...you seem happy with her for now, but forever is a long time, my friend.
  9. kate1985
    I'm having a tough time today...just thought I'd bump this
  10. kate1985
    I have one... It's about my mom's best friend. Let's call her Jane. Anyways...Jane had been dating this guy (we'll call him Jake) for almost 5 years. I'm a little unclear on what happened, but they eventually broke up and Jake moved out of the country. Jane ended up meeting a new man who she later went on to marry. Jake also met and married someone else. Well fast forward 10 years later...Jane's husband passed away, and Jake was in the process of divorcing his wife. I'm not sure what happened, but the two eventually got in touch, started dating, and married a few years later. Sadly, Jake passed away last year...but from what I know, they had a blissfully happy 12 years of marriage. And I have another one, although it's not really reconciliation but more of a karma/regret story. When my aunt was in her early 20's, she was involved with a man for several years. They were even engaged to be married...then out of nowhere, the guy broke off their engagement to run off and marry some other woman. From what I heard, my aunt went into a deep depression and even considered going into a mental institution because she was sooo deeply affected. Well...this happened about 15-20 years ago. According to my mom, who recently spoke to the guy...he is still in love with my aunt. He's still married to that same woman, but he says it is an unhappy marriage. So...not really reconciliation, but at least the guy got his karma! He broke my aunt's heart to pieces and all he got for it was a sad and lonely marriage.
  11. kate1985
    Do you guys think reconciliations can happen if one person moves to a new state? My ex has accepted a new job position in NY while I live on the west coast. We broke up 3 months ago with LC. I am terrified that he will meet someone new and we will lose all hope of ever reconciling. I am absolutely devastated of the thought that I will never see him again...that thought alone makes me feel sick to my stomach. Does anyone have stories of reconciliations happening even though one has moved away? I feel like my situation is hopeless and I feel absolutely gutted. I know I have to move on...and I will. But I just feel like I have to know that it's possible. It's Christmas Eve and I just feel like crap. I could use some hope...
  12. kate1985
    Don't know if celebrities count but Marie Osmond is re marrying her first husband. Anything is possible when it comes to love. But don't wait around or stop living. Just let nature take it's course...I truly believe that if two people are meant to be, they will find their way back together. I still hope and pray that my ex will come back to me...but at the same time, I'm gonna continue on living my life and being open to meeting new people. If he comes back, then yay for me!! If he doesn't, then at least I would've moved on.
  13. kate1985
    Why am I still so in love with you? Honestly, you weren't even that great. You were boring, uninteresting, and a bit too feminine for my taste. Screw you.
  14. kate1985
    Oops double post
  15. kate1985
    After my very recent breakup, I went to my mom to seek some advice. During our conversation, she told me about her relationship with my father. They both started dating each other at 22 years old. Five years into the relationship, my dad decided to dump her because he missed the single life. My mom was devastated and decided that she had no choice but to move on. They had very little contact for over a year (4 months NC), and both even dated different people. Well...my dad eventually came back and the rest is history. They got married and were together for 25 years (until my father passed away). Their relationship makes me believe that anything is possible. The most important thing is to move on while time does it's job. Your ex may come back, maybe not. What's important is we don't sit around and let life pass us by waiting for someone who may never come back. Whatever will be, will be. There's no use in obsessing over it.
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