Spikeyhair18

I have a question for everyone out there,I am 19 years old and have a very hard time expressing myself and carying on a decent conversation.My question is: when you were my age give or take a few years,did you have my same problem and most importantly-did you grow out of it? Let me know your experiences! Thanks

Hi everyone, I am 19 years old and have an extreamly hard time finding things to say and expressing myself to other people,especially girls . My family has never been very open about there feeling so thats a good start to my problem,dont get me wrong,we love eachother,we just don show it enough.I cant even have a normal conversation with my parents. Im really hopping that this is just a teenage problem and that i will grow out of it eventually.But i get really mad at myself becasue i cant talk to people,its even caused breakups with past girlfriends becasue they thought i didnt like them anymore or that i was ignoring them.And im onthe way to starting another relationship with a really great girl and i dont want that to happen again. So does anyone have any advice for me or even personal experience they could share with me,it would really help me out,Thanks

I have been friends with this one girl for about 4 years,we have always been friends and never really thought about dating,we were jsut good friends. Well about a month ago i told her that i liked her as more than friends and she said she felt the same way about me,BUT,her parents are very strict about dating and she feels we still need to learn alot more about eachother,and that were still too young to start dating.(Im 19 and she is 18 btw) I was totaly cool about the whole thing,but i soon learned that i just couldnt stand just being friends,my feelings for her were just too much. I started to kinda act liek we were dating,talking to her alot more than normal,hanging out more ect ect. So a couple days ago i learned from a friend that she thought that i was like rearin to get married or somthing,but im not. Plus i learned that shes kinda into this other guy,nothing seriouse,he even lives like two hours away from her.But just the fact that i know about him maked me so uneasy.Plus i dont know why she would have her eye on another guy if she wasnt interested in getting into a relationship.I know what your thinkin,she dosent really like me huh,well she does,believe u me.Her friends tell me how much she wishes we could be together,she jsut feels that im pushing thigs too fast. So my question to all you out there is can i show her my feeling without making her feel like im moving in for the kill. I really like this girl alot i dont know wut i would do if i did somthing to jeapordize our friendship. Any help would be much appreciated