New Found Glory

i think what you should do depends on how he treats you, if you were talkin outta your ass and he treats you well, then you are in some trouble. if you were telling the truth, then it shouldnt be to much of a problem

you all make valid points. and yes this is the first girl that i have really liked. and im not so much afraid of her getting mad or blowing up in my face, but i dont want to destroy such a good friendship if she doesnt feel the same way. while im sure we could remain friends, i think it would be awkward. I don't know if asking her friend is an option, because i don't know her as well, and i no for a fact that anything i say one of them, the other will no about it within 10 minutes(not literally, but i think you understand what i mean). In addition, i dont want to put my friend in an akward postion with his new relationship. I really do think she likes me. Especially after the pool, but i am alittle afriad of being rejected and very afraid of losing a good friend in the process. Also, if i do decide to tell her how i feel, i havent the faintest idea how, could anyone(a girl preferably) give me some advice on what to say and how/when to say it. Because i have had some opportunities but could never muster up the nerve because im also worried about messing up when i am telling her how i feel.

I think what you have to realize is we(guys) do not necessarily look for only a nice body. I no plenty of girls who are not large breasted or skinny or anything like that, but they are still attractive it is just that if im walking down the street, i cant see a girls personality, i can only see her body, so if i am just going to look at someone, it will be someone with a nice body. but if i am going to sit down and have a coffee with somebody, or anything like that, then its the mind, the personality, and in my case, the most important feature, the sense of humour, that is what im looking for.

I'll get right to the problem. I have liked this girl for a little while, but never did anything about it. I figured it was some harmless crush, but as summer started i spend more time with her. Me and My friend keep doing stuff with her and her friend. The four of us have gone out for 5 nights in a row now. we have done some crazy stuff. yesterday i found myself swimming in her pool at 4 in the morning in my shorts. I have been told by friends that she likes me, and i think she does too, but i may just be self-absorbed, ya know? Anyway i have liked her for a while and i think she shares these feelings. I dont know what to do. I REALLY like her. And today the problem got more complex. My friend and her friend have decided to start dating. I am happy for him and everything but feel this may be akward if the four of us go out more. My friend is having a small party tomorrow and i don't no if i should tell her anything. So advice by then would be fantastic. And she(the girl i like) if having a party in a couple of weeks, so advice and suggestions would be really appreciated.