Hey man,
Listen, I can relate to your situation. Ive never been the hottest guy in school ,or for that matter, my piers think Im just an average LOOKING guy. These days females (our age) tend to prefer a hot guy with a nice car among other things. So if we dont have either, than were screwed right? WRONG! I've found that if ya dont have the looks or material stuff, you still have a fighting chance! Its your personality that will get you further, anyway . You say that you are quite shy and reclusive, well, you can change that. Not so much your personality, but the way you interact with people can be improved. If you know how to be funny, witty, stupid, loose, and have a good time than people will feel more comfortable around you. When that happens, they seem to start to notice whats inside rather than looks. So thats the first thing. The second thing is to do something off-the-wall for her. If she has any bit of a sense of humor, play on it. I believe that a female appreciates a sense of humor over anything else (besides hygene) C'mon ladies, back me up here! If you do something totally unexpected, such as a flower in her locker or binder (without being stalker-ish) or just find a really nice thing to for her, than it might just work out. Because anyone could ask her out, but only you would be the one to go out of your way to do something positive and kind. If she doesnt respond to that, and blows you off or gets upset, than SHE DOESNT DESERVE YOU!!! You would'nt want to be around someone like that anyways. So give it a shot, if it doesnt work, than you'll just be back where you started, which isnt all that bad. 8)
-Statiz09
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