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  1. Aldo25
    That's a beautiful poem
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    I reached the 30 day milestone! I gotta admit though part of it was me burying my emotions for my ex and focusing on this new girl I have a crush on. It shouldnt matter how I did it, just that I did it 30 days and counting, NC whatsoever, not even viewing her myspace.
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    I stopped keeping track, that should say something about my state of mind regarding her I'm nearing the 2 month mark of being broken up and I feel great. In fact I had a dream about her last night, but instead of being upset about the dream, I took it to mean that I'm finally ok with where I am in life and am no longer upset about the break up. I finally had my "light switch" moment, as someone in another thread put it.
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    I know how you feel bear, I've been separated from my ex for about 7 weeks now. To go from being with her every single day to being with her not at all, let alone the fact that she has another guy...it hurts. It hurts so much that sometimes I can't stop thinking about it, and (like you) I desperately want someone in my life to make me forget about her. But (just as I did) ask yourself this. Are you wanting someone else because you genuinely want someone else? Or do you just want someone so you can take your mind off your ex? If the anwser is the latter response, how fair is that for the person that you (or I) would eventually hook up with?
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    Thanks, you too I went out for a while, hung out at my store (I was there to get my work schedule, but I hung around to talk to friends), went and did a few errands, than I went to Best Buy and treated myself to a few movies. It feels so good to be able to spend my money again
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    Day 22! Today is especially hard, because it's her birhtday and I originally was going to send her a birthday greeting. But my desire to get to a month of NC (and many more after that) has led me to drop my plans to wish her a birthday greeting and continue on with NC
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    One day shy of three weeks. I really want to reach that benchmark too! I think I'll be able to because I'm going to see some friends later tomorrow (well, today, actually) and that should occupy my time. I'm still dreading Friday, it's her birthday and I know the nice guy in me really really wants to text her, but I know I shouldnt!
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    Havent posted in here in a while, I suppose I was just doing that to "forget" how long it's been, because in the past when I was aware of the time, thats' when I slipped up and contacted her, but now that I'm feeling good, I can safely say it has been: TWO WEEKS of NC, and man I feel great. I'm starting to reconnect with old friends and my ex is now the furthest thing from my mind
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    One week and I havent contacted her! In fact I barely thought of her at all today (I have a new girl I'm thinking about now It's hard to believe that one month ago I didnt think I'd be able to go on...and now I am!
  10. Aldo25
    Day 6 on my third attempt. It's helped that it has now been a month since we broke up. I feel I am finally moving on, sure the sadness is still there, but not as much as it used to be.
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    Well, as Day 2 winds down, I still feel the pangs of longing. I just wish I could see her so badly, not even in a romantic capacity, just to see that she's ok. But I keep telling msyelf that I'm a better person now (which is true, I'm much calmer), and that I'm better off without her, which in all honesty I feel is true. I just hope I don't break down after a week like I did last week
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    Day 1 (third attempt) is winding down. I feel pretty good, I keep telling myself I am a better person without her, and that she doesnt want anything to do with me (that makes me feel better too). I swear, this time I am going to hit the 30 day mark!
  13. Aldo25
    Ok...I'm almost embarrassed to admit this, but here's my third attempt at NC. Since where I am it's midnight I will start Day 1. Here we go again...
  14. Aldo25
    Well, here we are, one week. Of course it would have been 3 weeks and some change if I hadnt caved in last Thursday and text her, which didnt help me at all, I was full of anxiety the whole day, wondering if we'd ever get back together. As the days go on, it gets harder and harder to not contact her, I really want to check in with her and see what's up, but I know I shouldnt, god why does this have to be so hard?
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    That's not a bad idea. I do have a set work schedule at the moment; I have the same days off each week. Not to hard to set aside a few hours a day to work out.
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    One more day and I will reach the 1 week milestone (again). It's really hard as I so badly want to get in touch with her, but I'm determined to beat my last record (which was just over 2 weeks...I caved in). It's especially hard today as I'm off work today and my days off usually consisted of spending it with her. Every moment I spend alone I miss her that much more. I know I should get a hobby, but I can't focus on anything long enough to see it through.
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    Since I am determined to hit the 30 Day benchmark I will not contact her, even though I know it will be hard, but I know I can do it.
  18. Aldo25
    That brings up a question I've been meaning to ask. My ex's birthday is coming up (June 15th). Is it wrong for me to text her a simple "Happy Birhtday?" Or should I just let it go?
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    Today would have been 2 weeks, but I contacted her last Thursday. I don't know what I expected would happened if I contacted her, all it ended up doing was making me extremely anxious all day. So this makes it Day 5, and I'm on the road to NC, my goal is 30 days so we'll see how that works out.
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    Day 3 I had another dream about my ex, but fortanately this time it didnt spark me to want to contact her when I woke up. In fact I have a sort of "date" with a girl that I used to work with, she wants to take me clothes shopping, whether it's an attempt to go out with me or just a need to take me shopping, it will be me spending the evening with a girl, so I am looking forward to that.
  21. Aldo25
    Day 2 for me on my second attempt. Last time I made it to two weeks before I caved in, this time I hope to make it to make it to a month, and even later than that.
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    I would have been at 17 today had I not broke NC yesterday, god I wish I hadnt (it's not that she said anything bad, it's just that it opened up the possibility that we could get back together). I feel so foolish.
  23. Aldo25
    Well, I broke NC yesterday so I figured it woudlnt hurt to check her myspace page. I have no idea why I did, not sure what I was hoping to accomplish. In any event, I'm making a clean start, here we go again... Day 1
  24. Aldo25
    I know how you feel, my ex moved on really quickly too. She was already with the other guy only three days after she broke up with me. Now she's calling him her boyfriend, it really tore me up inside when I heard that, but there's nothing I can do about it, just like there's nothing you can do about it, so try not to let it get to you.
  25. Aldo25
    Day 0 It is with much regret that I have to come here and tell you guys that I failed I sent her a text today apologizing for being verbally abusive, and another one saying I hope we could be friends. She responded to the first one with "I know" and didnt respond to the second one. I'm not really sure what I hoped to achieve out of apologizing to her, but I just feel so bad for caving in an contacting her.
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